no sex drive......

[HollieAnnSmith]

I have a daughter who will be 5 on December 18th. I left her dad when she was 2 months old because I caught him cheating on me.  I'm currently 15 weeks pregnant with my second child who is a boy.  With my first pregnancy my sex drive was through the roof, but with this one my sex drive is non existent. I've Been Extremely nauseous, tried and just plain not feeling good since I got pregnant this time.  My boyfriend says even though he's cooking, cleaning and doing the laundry To help me out he's still a man with needs and in the same sentence he's says "you know your my only one right". Could he be cheating on me or in I just paranoid?

[dhill1989]

Girl please talk about no sex drive. I'm almost 7 months haven't had sex since may when I got knocked up. I have been with my boyfriend for 10yrs and we have 3kids already together this is our 4th. I have no sex drive pregnant and have none non pregnant. I'm always tired don't wanna be bothered with it and don't care to have sex. He don't even ask me anymore and I really don't care. I know guys have there needs but all the stuff we been through he will be fine lol. It sounds mean but I'm just not a sex person anymore I'm only 25yrs old. Every since I had my son I had turned into a grandma when it comes to sex. Idk if its because it's with him and I'm not feeling it anymore but hey. You will know deep down in your gut what he's doing. I'm saying from experience when you ain't giving it up theres a ******* female out there thirsty enough to give him what he want.

[meiks]

I feel sorry for my husband i have no sex drive at all i have 6 weeks to gò and never came across at all

[Shohna]

I think its hard to know whats going on behind closed doors, but i know (even tho im single now) that I have no sex drive and have lost all my confidence..i wasnt like this in my last pregnancy, but I think we can let our feelings of how big we have got and feeling unnattractive or unsexy etc cloud our judgement. You have been hurt and betrayed in the past too..at a time that a loving partner should be looking after you..I hope you and your partner can talk things through and get through this :)

[tink0428]

What does your gut tell you every woman knows when their being cheated on it becomes more than just a little insecurity that we all feel from time to time trust yourself every time I have felt that gut renching undeniable feeling of betrayal it was just a matter  of time before I had proof. Trust yourself i've had my own worries with my husband because of past experience and we always check to feel better but every time I know deep inside that he isn't doing anything and it's my own skeletons.  Trust yourself you'll know what's going on.

[HollieAnnSmith]

I have talked to him about not having a sex drive, but ask in really said itsy I'm not feeling it. I think a more in depth conversation about it is in order

[HollieAnnSmith]

He informed me a few weeks ago that he ran across an old friend on Facebook who he messed around with once as a teenager and has been talking to her. I told him that I didn't like it and the reasons why I don't like it.  I have been checking his emails,  texts, phone calls and FB messages since then and as far as I know there has been no more communication between the two. But since he knows I'm checking it he could be deleting them. He tells me that he will just have to prove to me that I'm his only one.  But in his search bar I found out yesterday that he had visited a sight called **** book dating the night before. I want to believe him but with that in his search bar I just don't know what to believe.  

[christeng]

My sex drive is almost non existent but every few weeks I have the urge. But half the time my husband doesnt want to. I thought it was me, but after we talked about it he told me that he is having a rough time seeing me in pain almost daily (with my bad back, puking, no energy etc)  and that the last thing I need is for him to be "pounding away" at me! Haha after the conversation it was all clear why and he's very understanding that while he may have needs, he is willing to put them aside cause im so uncomfortable right now.

So I would just talk to him and explain your feelings and he can see why you dont have the urge. You can make him see

[gina_93]

Idk I would take it like if he's messing with someone or plan to idk it's kinda hard to tell or maybe he's just letting you know that you are the only one for him and he'll wait for you to have that. Romantic moment...how do you see it from your perspective?