pissed off/judgment

[A_J_F]

So I went to the doctor and this time there where many ftm mainly teenagers I'd say ranging from 14 to 19 I'm only 19 so I don't look at people thinking your to old or your to your no matter how many children I see you have or do not have. I was the only teenage mom with one baby (1year old) and pregnant(you can tell already) and many of these girls where looking at me and my child nasty I said nothing because it does not faze me buy I did over hear these two girls talking supposedly quietly saying "only a ***** would have 2 children, what a bad mom" that's all I got to hear the only reason I know they where talking about me is as I said I was the only one with a baby at hand and pregnant.. I don't know if I was being childish but I got mad gave my son to my husband and told them to say it to my face and then told them off once they pretend not to hear me, I might be young but I'm a great mother to my children and I find it rude to talk **** let alone if you don't know anything. Just to have the mother of this young lady yell at me telling me I had no right to tell her anything and she was only 14 and to pick on someone my own age..... I'm just wondering what you ladies would have done or did I over react because according to my husband who cares what they say.. but personally calling me a bad mom crosses the line

[specialmom]

I agree you have every right to be mad.  But I'm a fan of rising above.  I'd just smile at them and hug your baby.  People gonna hate . . .  let them hate.  It's on them for making the world a more miserable place.  You be the sunshine in the world!  good luck

[A_J_F]

Thank you ladies! It has had me mad all day but I'm fine I guess I let my emotions get the best of me at the moment..

[Roxxxy915]

Iwould of deff said something too. Im 23 yrs old & excepting baby #3. Ppl havent said or look @me weird in public well not that ive heard\seen. But lots of fam do &&&& ido say something idnt careeee!!!!!!

[RockRose]

And on the other hand,  instead of confronting girls who behave this way,  you might want to perfect a look like the way you'd look at a 4 year old throwing a tantrum - kind of a quick curious look,  and then look away.

There's no reason to confront an early teen and her mother who are behaving rudely to you.

Best wishes.

[RockRose]

So.  You're a married adult woman,  with a 1 year old and you're pregnant,  and some 14 year old girl who was pregnant said nasty things about you?

Here's the deal.  That girl is clueless about her own situation, and her mother created her.  

There is absolutely nothing wrong with an adult married woman with a baby and one on the way.  

[gabgabb]

Who cares what they think don't let them hurt you your doing a wonderful thing I'm 19 and pregnant with my second child as well I had my son at 15 don't worry because in the long run they'll have to answer to God not you your doing an amazing job chin up beautiful mommy have to stick together because were the strongest in the world and we have to help each other

[raventidwell12]

I think what they said is ********. And glad you stood up for yourself. My fiance wouldn't let me. And that women should have kelp her mouth shut. Shouldn't have let her 14 year daughter get pregnant and then talk **** to older pregnant women . I've had something similar happen to me. I'm 16 and a ftm and had these two nasty looking girls starring at me talking about how I'm a hoe and fat. Pissed me off so bad.