Is it really a big deal? Do you have sex often? Are you entertaining him?
I cba now im 36w.
Some women are saying that it's better he's watching porn and having you finish him off than him cheating on you, which is true. But if you feel like if you turn down sex with your husband then there's a chance he's going to go get it somewhere else..... That's a problem! You're pregnant! You probably aren't going to be as sexually available as you used to be. I think you should talk to him about how that makes you uncomfortable and come to a compromise of some kind.
And to the other debate going around here: I know with 100% my husband does not look at porn or masturbate. No, I'm not naive or gullible. I think porn ruins relationships and can become a disgusting addiction very quickly.
sometimes men will watch porn for fear they will hurt the baby. Maybe they feel as if you are to tired to have sex and thought you needed that extra sleep. Maybe sex has become uncomfortable for you and don't want to risk you having a risky pregnancy. You won't know until you ask him.
Ugh...so sorry you're dealing with this. I know this isn't something you want to have be concerned over, especially during your pregnancy. But have you had a chance to talk with your husband about how this is making you feel? Does he seem at all willing to change his behavior? Also, do you think this might be turning into an addiction for him? If so, it would probably be good to get some professional help in dealing with this. For instance, from a counselor or support group. There's also tons of resources out there on this topic. You could check out a website called PureIntimacy or there's a good book I've come across called False Intimacy. So, just a couple suggestions. In the meantime, you're in my prayers!
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Sometime it turns them on. It could make your sex life better maybe it could give him different ideas to make u happy. But it makes everyone feels different you just need to talk to him
Porn to finally get that orgasm but i truly desire to have that orgasm with my husband, that's why I can't wait to be over with being pregnant and the 6 wks postpartum. Plus orgasms are a way to induce labor naturally. Don't overreact be happy his asking you for sex and not another woman.
SORRY IF TMI!!!