punched him !

[selena_nene]

my boyfriend came drunk , and was aggressive and called my two lil brothers that are three and four scrubs ! I got mad and said wow what the fawk than he got up yelling in my face looked like he was gonna hit me  so I swung nd punched him in the face than he got on top of me on bed held me down and now hes being smart I wanna get up and  beat his assss ! what do I do ?

[specialmom]

Wow.  this relationship is quite toxic on both your parts.  It is not smart to escalate a fight with an already drunk and angry person.  You need to start thinking like a mother.  And that you hit him--  I get you say he had 'a look' like he was going to do something but YOU did.  Not okay.  We don't punch people.  That's not cool.  

Now, this guy and you having that fight in front of your little brothers is traumatizing to them.  And if they didn't see it, they heard it.  This is no way to live or to act in front of kids----  siblings or your own.  

I agree that this relationship sounds dangerous and might be best to allow to dissolve.  good luck

[wife_and_mama2014]

And also, you were wrong. Please don't blame it all on him. What he did is not okay, but you punching him sure as hell is not okay either. Him yelling in your face is scary, but it's not physical. It sounds like you're the one who put hands on him first. It's not okay for either of you to do anything. What you did is just as equally abuse. I would leave and seek some help, both of you.

[AsiaShaniaBoss_91496]

Remove yourself & your loved ones from the situation . Trust me . & abuse only gets worse its starts out verbal than eventually he'll smack you then a little smack will turn into punching ..  , he needs to know that he was wrong and that behavior is unacceptable that you wont tolerate it what so ever .

[selena_nene]

ima be honest I got respect for myself I wanna end my life  so down cause I don't want no man to ever try me again

[selena_nene]

ima be honest I got respect for myself I wanna end my life  so down cause I don't want no man to ever try me again

[Tarajolly]

Tell him to get the he'll out!

[selena_nene]

yup

[wife_and_mama2014]

....leave.