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mother disowning me
Im a FTM and im stressing alot lately. Imma college student and i feel lost, this was a unplanned pregnancy which makes it harder bc i wasnt prepared. I told my mom that I'm pregnant recently and she's disowning me and degrading for being pregnant. She's sent nasty emails and texts messages to me and i cant deal. Can someone give me advice on how to deal with this? Is there anyone who can relate?
Have them by you and I hope for your sake that your mom comes around. Best wishes Dear
@BabyWidmer
Yeah i do. My mom really is the only one treating bad
Do you have a good support system besides your mom, friends, other family member?
Thanks you guys! Reading these comments made me happier, ill try not.to stress about it. I did block her, and ill keep my distance for now, hopefully she.comes around but im prepared if she doesnt.
Im 23 btw & my husband is 25. My mom & i have a better relationship after having my kids so , we have a lot to relate & she helps alot. She'll come aroundddd good luck!!
My mom would say alot of negative stuff to me w.my 1st ... Iwould stress get sad/cry. @least my husband was there for comfort but anyways she got over it after she was born since then shes all over her shes 3yrs old now & lovesssss her grandma shes like her 2nd mom. Now im excepting baby #3. LOL most moms get over it once thee baby is here . Just ignore it but ikno it can be hard.
No one is fully prepared to have a baby even if they are the riches person on earth! Planned or unplanned it's all still scary and life changing. I'm pregnant with my 3rd baby and I'm 22. I had my first when I was 16 , totally unplanned and honestly it was the best thing to ever happen to me. My family didn't speak to me and my aunt even went on to say she didn't want my cousin around me because than my cousin would get pregnant. People say mean things whether they mean them or not it's still not right ! My grandparents weren't happy with any of my pregnancies but once my first two were born they fell in love with my boys! Your mom may just need time coming around and accepting that your pregnant but that doesn't give her the right to say hurtful things and I would sit down and tell her that! You'll get through this , all is mommies always do :)
Hun, you are an adult and she needs to get over herself. You focus on your baby that you are growing and forget your mothers selfish ways. I would block her and let her get over her tantrum because that is exactly what she is doing. Do from experience with some space they come around. If not then it is her loss, NOT yours!!! Keep your head up! If you ever need the vent or chat feel free to message me. Best wishes girl
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