sex questions?

[squirt_13]

my man is very sexual he understands if I don't want it but I try to please him as much as I can so the other day I guess you could say I took one for the team even though I was kind of uncomfortable but it still felt good he had noticed that I hadn't gotthen off and insisted we play with toys until I did now my question is was it bad that I faked it so it would make him feel good about things because I knew he would have felt horrible after if he gotten off and I didn't

[specialmom]

Do what you have to do.  :>)  I think men are naïve if they believe that we'll orgasm every time.  It takes men an average of 4 to 5 minutes to reach orgasm and women an average of 19 to 22 minutes.  I would try to get on the same page with him regarding your still enjoying sex and not feeling like you HAVE to have an orgasm each and every time ( I mean, we want to and all but we're tired!).  Some men get insecure about it and if your guy is that kind of guy, he won't take it well.  so, do what you have to do.  best of luck to you and you are a good girlfriend to A, take one for the team and B, want him to feel good that he pleased you.  :>)  good luck hon

[BonitaMichelle]

I just like to be honest. I wouldn't have faked it.

[jjolfert]

My.hubby knows I can't orgasm during pregnancy. It just doesn't happen. With either pregnancy. So when we have sex it's just for him lol.

[squirt_13]

That's how I feel!!! I was wondering if I was the only one doing this lol Thank you

[amandag22409]

No its not. I love my fiance but I'm big and get tired so fast I feel bad bc he's like we'll we can stop. But I definitely just go for it and make him happy.

[squirt_13]

Oh and I'm 36 weeks 4 days with an big belly lol