sometimes

[mommaKatxx]

I hope my husband is cheating on me, which would give me an actual reason to just walk away. But, lately omggggg...... He's been such a jerk to me.

I don't freaking know what else to do. Honestly.



Anyways, I know stress is bad for the baby, but my sister told me I'd my heart rate goes up, could put me in labor. Is that how it goes??

[mommaKatxx]

Leaving is no option. I couykd stay with my dad or grandparents.. But we moved here to be closer to them.. So it'd be pointless.

I'm leaving him alone. I'm contracting.... I'm like, bent over in pains.. I just hate when he's a freakin jerk to me.

[minna1996]

Dont leave leave but maybe spend a couple nights at a friends house maybe he is really stressed about something and your hormonal right now. All you need is time and space

[RockRose]

momma,   you sound and look like someone I'd like.  ;D  

Can you just be nice to him?  I don't know what you tried to talk to him about,  but my guess it wasn't something pleasant for him.  

Be pleasant.  Say something he would actually want to hear.  Like,  I'm tired,  do you want to pick a tv show and I'll pop popcorn and lay on the couch?

[Miss_Courtney]

Be careful what you wish for.
Try not to stress too much. Everything will be okay. :)

[pinkrazrbrd]

Sounds like an a** I would leave him unless u think he will change when you have the baby

[mommaKatxx]

Wlell.... I just tried to talk to him again, when his back is towards me.... And I layed it out to him...

He doesn't care.... As usual. So. Idk...

I'm staying in the living room for a bit and just leaving him alone.

Can't help but cry. Ahahha..

[mommaKatxx]

Yeah, exactly... Ive done the walking away... 3000miles away. A plane ticket home on Christmas, away. I hated it. But, yeah. I am leaving him alone right now. He came up to me, and hugged me.. But only because he knows he fun f'd up.loll.

And thats what I was talking about... Like, right now.. I'm contracting. And I am trying to calm but.... Ughh.

I want my son out! So I don't worry so much about it. Ahaha

[honestykay]

I really dislike the talk of taking the easy way out and leaving or getting a divorce. Please dont take that advice. There is a reason he is acting the way he is. Communication is the key. When my husband is acting that way he is just stresses and needs a release.

[luxah]

Walking away is easy. Kinda glad it is, otherwise we'd all be stuck in rough spots at some points in our lives. You can vent, nothing wrong with that. What you do with the advice given to you is what you do. Sorry its not working out for ya though. Hope you can work something out sp your not as stressed.

[RachaelSummers]

I don't care what anyone says, stress CAN cause labor. If I stress too much I start contracting. I had a bad experience a week ago when my own DAD put his hands on me and was going to do it again but I guess reality hit that I'm pregnant and a grown woman and he didn't again. Anyway, I had contractions for two days after that happened because I was so stressed out.

[mommaKatxx]

No. No I don't. And its not to the point of divorce... Or I wouldn't have gotten married. I'm not being abused.. Or hurt.. Or whatever.

I just wanted to.. Idk. Vent? That's allowed, right?

[RockRose]

??  Do you live in a state where you have to have "cause" for divorce?

[mommaKatxx]

Walking away just seems so easy. But when I try and talk to him... It's like I'm not even here. :(

[luxah]

Him being a jerk should be enough for you to walk away. Even if its just until he realizes his mistakes. Why put up with it if you're unhappy?  I know if your blood pressure gets to high it puts baby at risk and you will more than likely be induced in order to save the baby. I dunno about just regular heart rate though, I think the two are connected though... but I'm not a doc.