Yeah girls it socks he finally ran out of weed tonight and he is broke and no license and no car so he won't be getting none for a while lol
It's very hard to try and get him to stop smoking I try all the time with my husband and no Matter what he won't stop and it's sad to say that there are a few men out here that does that spend there money on weed when they have bills and children or a child.....I mean we as women can only try our best :-(
Good luck hunny... My baby daddy is on probation already stuck n substance abuse classes and still smoking even though his p.o has told him one more dirty urine and back to jail he goes... He still doesn't care... They won't stop unless they want to...
I love him dearly I could not give him the option of leaving. I have told him April 7th when I found out I was pregnant we need to start saving money and he has but then went and spent it on weed every two weeks he gets paid that's the first thing he buys I have told him a lot almost everyday that I want it gobe. And him to stop he thinks I'm jealous I mean get real I'm only 9w today but I don't have a job due to past history issues and trying get past them and being pregnant is hard I worked one night for 8hr and 45 mind I went home and cried like a baby my feet wore swollen and my legs are hurting bad that night. And I feel bad he is a dad because he didn't want it at first then we went to first ultrasound and he almost cried :) now if I can get him to stop my life would be so much easier the past three days I got up at 4 two morning and cleaned for 3 hours both days then today I got up at 6:15 and cleaned another two hours and all he did was take the trash out come home from 4 hr shift at McDonald's and trashed the bedroom and kitchen and went to bed and let it all for me I need him to grow up :'(
There's nothing honestly hun god luck :/
I smoked weed before I got pregnant and we had always smoked together so I never asked my man to quit when I did. He offered but I just laughed. It has made it harder on me not smoking because you realize how much time is wasted by him smoking and sometimes his entire day revolves around getting some weed. And its annoying and upsetting sometimes but I don't nag him for it because I already have to nag about so much other crap.
I know a few people who did it while pregnant and there baby's are fine if all he does is spend money on it than it becomes a problem. You need the money for the lil one on the way and while smoking isn't bad for you or the baby spending all your money on it is. If he doesn't understand the situation all you can do is leave for a while and tell him he can either get his act together or lose you both.
Good luck with that mines on parole n still smoking
So true it's all up time him
There's nothing you can do. Honestly stopping is all up to him. All I can tell you is to be straight up with him and tell him that you need him to stop. Not just for you but for baby as well. Weed is not addicting so the choice is entirely on his hands at that point. Good luck sweet heart.