I'm doing a lot towards my own shower also. It's basically me, my mom, and my MIL. I am taking care of the invitations, party favors, decorations, etc. My MIL is in charge of food, and my mother is in charge of the reserving the party room at the hotel we're using. I really think it's better if several people pitch in. I can't imagine doing it all by myself, though. So expensive! The cost of throwing myself a shower would amount to more than the gifts I'd receive, I'm afraid. And, I really just don't want to over extend myself. I'm so worn out these days as it is, these twins are really starting to grow.
Latrice, our planning is going really slow actually. Hopefully we will nail things down more this week and we can get the ball rolling.
yes, my first child (14years ago i threw my own shower). I will be throwing my own shower with this baby, my best friend and sister offered to help, but i didnt ask them. Its sorta normal here, most people throw there own parties and people offer to help.
There are times ive went to baby showers and it was thrown by someone else or it was a suprise, but people are not shocked here when you say your throwing your own shower.
sorry. i didnt mean that in a bad way... i just read another post of yours that in WI that is normal there....
you are planning your own shower?
Oh i wanted to add, my best friend who went with me to look at the hall got a BFP today, she has endometrious, she had been ttc for 2 years and was scheduled to have a surgery in june to increase her chances. I was very happy for her, this will be her and her husbands first child:)