I had a gut feeling with my first and I was right it was a boy and now with my second I've thought ever since I first found I was pregnant that it's a girl and it is. So I guess for me I should trust my instincts more!
With my first baby I was 100% convince it was a girl. I was wrong. And I didn't find out until the baby was born, so dummy me bought a bunch of girl clothes! LOL!. I was 23 at the time and this was about 20 years ago!
I think your "gut" feeling is hope. So unless you're psychic and believe in that stuff, you'll just have to find out on the ultrasound.
I don't think you're feeling lonely is being selfish. I can understand that. I work from home and do miss working with people somewhat. I am in the house a lot by myself for the most part. I'm pretty used to it. My husband likes to play golf on the weekend and for about 95% of the time I don't care, but occassionally pregnant or not I put my foot down when I need his company.
I've got dogs in the house too, so maybe that's why I'm not that lonely. I think it would be quieter if they weren't around.
Try taking a walk during the afternoon. Listen to an audio book or something like that. Get out doors and run into people. That helps!
I have a gut feeling it is a girl. I will find out on the 24th of this month.
Im just the opposite. Im very irritated these days and very moody, I like to be alone and in a quite environment, so when DF and DS is gone, i dont mind.
Sorry your feeling so alone, try to do some things to keep you busy, especially things dealing with the baby:)
I had a gut feeling when I was pregnant with my son that he was a boy. I had an u/s done at 29 weeks and sure enough...it was clear as day! =) with this one, I have a feeling it's another boy, but we are going to wait until the baby's born to find out. I hope I'm right!! =)
As for the lonely feeling, I get the same way. My mom took my son last night (He will be 1 next sat.) to give me a little break and this morning hubby had to install some carpet at a church, so I was able to tag along this time (which I haven't done in forever!!) and I loved it. I just want to be with him ALL the time. When he is at work all day, even if I have my son with me, I still miss him like crazy, I always bug him on when he will be home, and count down the hours. lol. You are not being selfish. It's called being pregnant and in love! haha =)