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This is my 3rd pregnancy and I'm about 5 weeks. I lost my first child about 7 years ago when he was three. Then I had a tubular pregnancy almost a year ago and it was really bad, I had to have one of my tubes removed. So I'm high risk right now. And scared to lose another baby. I want to only tell family right now but my husband is ready to announce it to the world.(the first child I lost was before I met my husband, but the sending one was his) I'm really excited and terrified. I don't know what to do. Who would you tell and not tell?
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Thank you! Im just going to have to tell him close loved ones only for now. I just couldn't handle announcing another loss. And this may sound bad but I'm tired of all the sympathy and the looks people give me.  
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So sorry for your loses! Of course it's your decision. If it were me, I would wait until a healthy heartbeat at least 8-10 weeks and maybe when the doctor feels reassured. You're close loved ones would be there to support you and maybe comfort you no matter what. Hope for the best for you with this pregnancy!
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