Sex Drive or lack thereof

[TashaQ]

Is anyone else also struggling with this. I am 21 weeks and the last thing I want to do is have sex with my partner.  I have also had several complications with bleeding and being in hospital. Not sure if that is making me wary. I just don't want to have sex.  He's trying to be understanding, but I can see it's getting to him. I just am not interested. Is this normal?

[oopsyay]

Me too. I haven't wanted sex in the slightest since we conceived. Sometimes I don't even want to be snuggled up to at night.
I.feel so bad for my hubby. I gave him a hj the other day, and I barely had the motivation for that...

[Cori2]

24 weeks and still hv a high sex drive. Want to enjoy it as much as we can until baby comes.

[melliejean]

I'm 25 weeks and have had the same problem. It's gotten a lot better over the past 2 weeks. Just have good communication with ur partner and tell him that u will be back to normal soon.

[eohinojosa]

I haven't had any sex drive either.  I admit it's nice to see I'm not the only one.  I'm 21w3d and when my husband is getting antsy, I try to indulge him in other forms (hand jobs mostly). I definitely make the effort to remain affectionate though through touching and kissing.  It makes a big difference and I think it makes it easier for him to handle it as well as he is.

[allie_gene]

I lost my sex drive. Then it can back but was hindered by my spotting for a few weeks. We are slowly getting back into having regular sex now. I m 22 weeks

[Annakowal14]

On the same boat I have been put off sex after 3 month pregnant .... Now I just hate it when he kisses me he thing I have lost interest in him since I got pregnant but tbh I don't like it anymore waiting for thing to go back to normal after birth  My poor husband jealous  that I will spend more time with my baby then him lol  Big baby

[924baby_2]

I'm 21 weeks and I hate the thought of sex. I will will get a crazy libado boost maybe once or twice a wk but i could honestly live w/o it. I've slowly weened my boyfriend off we have sex atleast twice a week.

[lherron22]

Sex is the last thing on my mind. I'm so tired and uncomfortable that the thought of it makes me exhausted lol my husband thought it was him but I explained to him it's not him it's me lol

[seemaxo]

Im 20 weeks and have that same issue. My sex drive is totally gone.My hubby is understanding but he does have his moods. I can always tell when it's bothering him. Sometimes I force myself to have sex, but it's nothing like before I became preggo. I can't wait to get it back.

[ericaranae]

With my first i lost my sex drive so bad i felt so terrible so it is normal im pretty sure im pregnant with my second and i have a little more sex drive but still not what it usual is when im not pregnant. But i do want to say during my first i got it back a little bit when i was close to 35 weeks

[Firsttimemommy090415]

I'm 23+4 weeks and have no sex drive at all either... Luckily my fiancé doesn't seem too bothered by it lol

[SkyLou89]

Im 21weeks and haven't had sex since we found out at 5weeks! Im not interested at all... my poor hubby he jokes about it but I do feel sorry for him