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need to vent sorry if its tmi

Omg the hormones r aweful! I dont want anything to do with sex but my bf wants it, but the way he wants it sometimes hurts and he told me he was just gonna go to sleep, and for me not wanting it i feel like crying bc i feel like hes upset with me now:/ lol
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Even tho i dont feel like having sex myself i still find ways to think past the wanting to get sick while "taking care of him and pleasing him"  all iv ever done was want to make my man happy so if it just takes getting him off then thats what ill do. Sorry for the tmi but i think were all adults here and can talk through just about anything. But he needs to understand if you dont feel like it then he shouldnt get mad because hes not the one carring a baby inside of him.
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i feel that way also but then I think, if he still finds me attractive when I haven't done my makeup/hair and have been in pjs all day cause I'm just so tired then why not! makes me feel pretty damn good and get in the mood lol :)
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SAMEEE boat. Girl tell him you're growning a baby and you don't feel like it. I feel so bad. He trys to turn me on but MEHHHH! Lol he understands a little more but I told him I feel bad not pleasing him and I feel like if I suck mmm then imma throw up on him. He laughed so im guessing he'll be understanding. If your man gets irritated at you for no sex then you guys might have to work on some real bonding time.
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