Husband_ Mother Inlaw

[missytoyou]

So my husband is the youngest of his mother children and he is truly a mama's boy he's 21 n still act like he's five when it comes to his mother which in away it's not bad but when it comes to what I say the minute she say something her word trumps mine she has the type of mouth that she just says what she want but the minute I say how I feel I'm in the wrong and disrespectful and when my husband said that to me it's like wow you take up for your mother but when I need you to take up for me you don't I have to tell you afterwards that you should've took up for me so now when she say stuff that's really unnecessary or rude I don't even say anything anymore to him I just vent to my own mother or sister n it shouldn't be like that like I thought after we moved out her house things was gonna get better but no still the same she think she right with everything when it comes to my daughter my child with him is not my first I'M not saying I know it all but the things she think she right. about she always wrong I'm just really fed up and don't know what to do I'm starting to really not like him help!!

[Flickan]

It's a common issue. My husband is like that and not the baby. He was raised that whatever his parents said was law. I think some guys have a hard time going through the grow up process where the transder their view of their parents from the living doting parents on a pedistal that always know best to they are in fact human and make mistake and are sometimes wrong. My husband is 39 and we've been married 3 years. Don't know your beliefs, but once your married, it's their job to leave and cleave. He becomes the head of the family and his family is now himself and you...and baby will make 3. I told my hubby after a huge blowup with my fil 2 weeks ago that I am not asking but telling him I need his support to back me over his folks. That it's his job as the head of our household.   We're slowly working through it and it'll take time....but know you're not alone.

[teenmomma1998]

Try and get him to see it from yur point of few put him in Yur place and see how he likes it or talk to him about it and tell him yuh don't want his mother to be the reason why yuh guys split up cuz I've read a lot of story's when the mother in law made a split up and controlling they sometimes r. try counseling it should help.