20 second child

[mamabee1030]

Will my family be negative about it? I want it to be a happy thing but still stress I'll be judged

[B1128]

Whether you enjoy your pregnancy and baby is up to you honey. Don't let others decide not allow for you to enjoy what is yours. If they don't like it, screw them. They're not the carrier or the parent. This is YOUR gift and you shouldn't let anyone decide that for you. And I can tell you, it doesn't matter what age you are. People will always agree or disagree. But the choice is always yours. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 27, I can assure you there are plenty of people (mainly his side) that do not agree with this pregnancy. But they can bite it and if they want to be apart of our daughters life, I suggest they do just that.

Don't let someone take your happiness from you. If this is what YOU want and if YOU are happy/excited, enjoy it!! Eat this s.h.i.t up! It's a miracle.

[koyama83]

I'm 31 and I won't tell my mother that I'm pregnant because she will be ridiculous about it. It is happy and positive if you say so, no matter what other people say...

[adefiore]

You're going to be judged from someone whether it be family or just people you don't even know. It depends though were they negative about your first one? Is the situation different? I'm pregnant with my first and am also 20. The family has been very supportive and are excited for the little one however if I wasn't married and my husband didn't make enough to support us both I know they wouldn't have felt the same way. Still the first time I told them my mom wasn't very thrilled said she was worried about our finances (assuming since we were young we couldn't afford a baby). Now she is very excited and has been super supportive. If you're not married (or that wouldn't make a difference to your family) eventually they'll come around. One of my older sisters had a baby somewhat young at 23 and wasn't married and at first everyone was disappointed but later on in the pregnancy were all very excited

[Piinkbarbiie1821]

Well atleast your not 21 with a six month old and is five weeks pregnant

[soon2bemama619]

Your 20..your an adult...