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A jellious sister

My sister has been mad at me ever since I told her I was pregnant. She is jellious. She told me. When I told her I was. She is mean to me all the time. She wouldnt let me take a nap when I came home from the hospital from vomiting to much. She told me I was lazy. Constantly do and say mean things. She posted on Facebook a fake baby you can get in the mail and she wrote on it. See I can have my own baby and still sleep threw the night. I replied I think I'll be ok. She told me to chill. I feel like I always have to defend myself. Yesterday she told me I was getting fat. And she said it a few times. She told me my face was getting fat too. And that she could contour it out.  I tried to not let it get to me. But it's bothering me bad. I'm only 9 weeks I've gained maybe 2 pounds. Does anyone else deal with this?
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You do not need the stress this early on or at all. Talk to her if that doesn't work give your self some space from her because it seems like she doesn't care to much about you or baby well being.
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I am sorry your sister is not supporting you through this wonderful time in your life. I'd say distance yourself the stress is bad especially  that early on. Why is she being mean to you? Are you guys close? Is she  scared she will not be close with you after? Whatever the reason its not right you need the support, talk to her if it doesn't stop don't go around her for awhile maybe she will snap out of it.
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That's crazy I wouldn't handle that situation that good I would have went off .. But you don't need that stress in your early pregnancy I've gained weight but my man loves it don't let her see you sweat I have younger sisters Also so I know how you feel but jealously is a bad trait . you may have to distance yourself ..
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God bless you, you have a heart of gold cause sister or not.. Once you belittle me && don't care about me or your own niece/nephew that's where me && my sister would've had to part ways to keep me from hurting her. Just ignore it && try to enjoy every bit of your pregnancy
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Thank you everyone we live together just recently. She is my older sister  she lives here with her husband and 3 kids. Me and my fiancĂ© and daughter. Big house plenty of our own space I spelt all bills and have always taken care of my own child. So it's not like I'm in a bad spot. Atleast Not any better then her. Her husband can not have kids. So she is jellious.  It hurts pretty bad but I don't let it show. I just stick up for myself. I don't want it to ruin our relationship. But it's starting to change how I feel about her.
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I dealt with that with my first pregnancy my sister tried making me have a miscarriage by punching and kneeing my stomach. She even got to convincing my mom to kick me out at 6 months pregnant. She now treats my child like poop which us sad because she would have had her own child who would be the same age as my daughter I am now pregnant with my 2nd and she has told me she hopes my child dies before I give birth to her. Thankfully I have had a healthy pregnancy and baby girl will be here in 11 days. People like them end up paying back with karma and it sure is a ***** my sister lost her baby almost 2 years ago

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