After having a baby

[tiff1230]

Who all has felt a change in your man feeling distant or whatever.  I try to even get dressed up to get his attention buy I feel I am getting no where . My baby is two months so we can have sex buy he don't try. I put on a sexy outfit for bed and he did tell me I looked sexy and we did have sex . He just don't realize how hard it can be to dress up when I'm trying to get use to having a baby and maintaining a house. I just feel depressed!  Help advice

[khadejaBROWN]

Men are big babies that need round the clock attention. They sulk when they are not no. 1 in your life even if the no.1 is his child. From experience I know that you should just imagine you have twins when it comes to caring for your man and your baby. As long as you DO dress up for him and tell him how much you missed him and promise him crazy nights, you will find that your hubby is back on track and is deffo not losing interest in you. Try doing special things like making him a special treat for dinner. Believe you me man's belly is beat way to his heart! I know you may be thinking that of course you are tired and you do a lot as it is, I just want to stress that especially after babies enter your life, you have to work twice as hard on your relationship with your man as it is prior to baby arrival. Hope that helps xx

[lucybooskie]

Seams like normal bonding behavior. Just continue working out and don't ignore ur social life, that will refresh u

[delizzzo delizzzzzo]

Why dont u just tell em how you feel i was feeling the same way and i felt like maybe he doesnt find me sexy anymore so i spoke to my husband about it and he said hes just been stressed out about work that he just comes home not in the mood but now that i spoke up things have changed and sometimes we go thru times when sex is just the last thing on our minds doesnt mean he doesnt find u attractive but my advice is do it alot cuz once your baby is like 2 years and up its almost impossible to have alone time