Anxiety

[Gabilovee12]

So recently the father of my son and i broke up im due in just 8 weeks and im having extreme anxiety on being a mom dealing with co parenting and just,exposing my little baby boy to this crazy world anyone else feeling like this im a FTM

[ourlastlilpeanut]

That second comment was for Firsttimemommy2808

[ourlastlilpeanut]

Please don't keep the dad away. Even if he has no money. Love is much more important than money. Yes, I understand that money is needed for shelter, food, clothes, diapers....etc. You can continue to stress to him, and maybe his family that you need financial help.
But regardless of money, that baby is his, and your baby deserves to be loved by daddy, don't take that away from your baby.

[ourlastlilpeanut]

Having a 'whole' family is ideal, but that isn't the only good way. You be the best mom that you can be. Dad will be what he choses, maybe he will be a great dad-if so then awesome. Maybe he won't, but with or without dad around, you worry about you and baby. That IS life. Sometimes a single parent family can be a better enviornment. You may end up with a very close bond because of it.

[Sweet2k16]

Yes , THERE IS POWER IN THE NAME OF JESUS. PRAY FOR YOUR STRENTH HUN.

[Lee86lee]

Also I was broke too and gave  my son my all and all..do the best u can for ur children that's all we can do God blesses those who do right and choose to live right.. trouble don't last always and eventually ur struggles will be ur ticket to the good life..those who endure to the end that will reap the benefit not those who quit before they get started or in the middle..ladies keep ur head up and never down God build us strong. God bless u

[Lee86lee]

Your welcome and to the other mom dont keep ur child away from her dad at the end of it all the child suffers. I didn't keep my son away from his dad he chose to stay away and I didn't force him to be there. When u choose life over drama it makes it so easy to live healthy and peaceful. I chose peace instead of arguing back and forward about who do what or don't do what.

[Firsttimemommy2808]

The fatherof my little girl ddoesn'tdo aanything to help me buy anything for her I stay broke while he out spending money on everyone else and I'mdue Iin 24 days I really feelhurt on this whole ssituation like I don't want to be considered a dead beat mother because. I won't let him see her but the way I feel is he hasn't helped me inanyway what should I do

[Gabilovee12]

Thank you so much!

[2gs_2bs_andcounting]

Beautifully written. There is power in the Name of Jesus

[Lee86lee]

I was with my first son father left when I was 3 months pregnant. I can understand your   feeling  of anxiety. I don't know where your faith lye but God promised me that if I was obedient to him he would open doors like jobs and school for me to support my son. He even said he will send help along with my family. I was able to put him in daycare found a really  good job and also went to school. His dad didnt pay child support and my son is 8yrs old and never met his dad. I met a guy when my son was 8 months old and we are now expecting our first child together. Long story short every thing will work out I promise it will. Let your baby be ur motivation to be better and do better. Praying for u.