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Anyone feeling lonely

I'm 27 weeks & my boyfriend works everyday all day I feel like he is avoiding me or even cheating. maybe it's my hormones or maybe not don't know what to do..
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134578 tn?1614729226
He might just be freaked out by the responsibility and cost of fatherhood, and is doing what he can to earn money.
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That could be true never thought about it like that...  Thank you
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Yes my first son my husband avoided me and every pregancy once I start to show gets distant.. he admited he was worried about finances and stressed about new bornbaby and sleep ect. Some guys are like this. Just stay high above it and don't let those emotions take over. As hormones can be crazy I had a bad day yesterday just miserable. My guys never been the talker type and wasn't till our second baby that I finally told him how I felt but with this third baby nothing's changed... it freaks him out a bit and he's scared to get intimate incase he hurts the baby...
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I know that can make you emotional... Did you tell him sex during pregnancy won't hurt the baby... I had to explain to my boyfriend although I think my weight gain scared him lmao....
9442948 tn?1406816451
Yes my husband spends quality time when he can but he works a lot so I can stay home it gets very lonely especially bc we moved and I have no friends in this new state
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I'm pregnant, it wasn't planned. My partner doesn't live with me and we work opposite shifts. I find it so hard. I feel like a single parent. Should be enjoying the pregnancy but I find it hard when I'm so alone. We both very much want the baby and are going to move in together, just not yet. I understand your frustration.
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Yes I can relate me childs father doesn't live with me & at times I feel so alone..
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My husband is very supportive, I'm the one that worries about finances and so stressed I pisses him off a lot lol
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It's easy to sit & think about finances lol I do all the time but if helps to lay on your side and rub your belly it helps me relaze & smile, I'm going swimming this week can't wait to see the baby move in the pool... Just Enjoy life for for take walks it helps me with stress.
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My man works everyday all day but I have his work number it's where there are no females bc of his anxiety I know his schedule when he is to leave and be at work and how long it takes for him to get home being lonely is normal I have to keep busy my special needs son does that for me but it's a huge step up and some guys do feel as we do when expecting talk to him
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Same here

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