DON'T JUDGE ME

[513LeeLee]

Sooooooo i have i boyfriend but he is a cheater but we been on and off on and off since high school(I'm 21)but i had just arrived back in to town but he went to jail two days after i got to see him for the first time after being gone 1 and half .but now he's gone for a minute because his life style etc. He say he gone change i try to make him but #you can't raise a man but now he in jail and its going on 4months and im dating someone else reality is i can be there for him and continuing visiting him but i gotta keep it pushing cuz his loyalty was always half *** so now I'm kinda on e with my loyalty for him#i don't like riding for someone who don't ride for me.BUT now I'm pregnant from my "boyfriend" who I've been dating while my dead beat boyfriend is lock up.that i lve known for about three yrs someone who had a crush on me and i never paid any attention but kicker thing is i just found out that he still sometimes have sex with his babymama.NOT MY BOYFRIEND#SINGLE MOTHER AND PROUD.#fml y me.#some father of my child#my friend said they're actually still together.#haven't told this to nobody else body nobody even know im pregnant I'm due in nov.30.#i just always dreamed of a MAN stepping up growing up and being happy to here this.sighs!!#anyone?

[513LeeLee]

Lol thanks for the advice i really need i LOVE my child he/she it's my legacy.no man woman or child can come in between and i could care less how he feel about us having a baby because he aint pushing them out.and for his baby mama i don't want to nor do i want him i know my worth so he can keep her but he gone do what he gotta do period. And i love boy meets girl.fav show /degrassi

[Aliciadortiz]

Girl I know times are hard right now and things are confusing but sounds to me like you are not comfortable with certain choices.  You are worth some one not being with some one else.  I would forget all romance with Mr. Jail, I have been it jail its not it. It's the lack of loyalty. Girl it takes a long time to change some one and I dont see it happening.  I am not condoning the new guy with his "baby mama" but that's a connection u can't just throw away but to me this is the biggest reason I respect and believe in marriage. Straight forward talks are the best.  If this guys is more than fun on date night and not just because of the baby tell him whats up but dont expect an answer right away or at least his true answer.  I feel if u can't make it work with this guy then forget dating for a while. (any gender) concentrait on you amd the miracle you are making.  Random confidence comes out of no where the further along you get, things fall into perspective.  I'm not a feminist but you dont need a man or anyone else.  You got this! At this point I think "Corey and Topanga" are done.(Boy meets world refference) I'm willing to bet there is some one amazing inside you that needs to be let out and not just that baby.  Find your pride,  just might be that baby. My baby helped save me from some stuff.  Message back if you want.  I dont really have friends any way lol  

[513LeeLee]

Thank you i've always had love for my baby just wish my baby father had as much love and excitement.but I'm super happy i just haven't told family cuz there big on baby showers and right now i don't want anyone asking me if he is involved in my pregnancy, will he be there for the shower ?or are yall together?.To much i just want to let family know when I'm ready.#pray it's a boy but I'm blessed and happy for either one.

[OctoberMommy2014]

first things first, "riding" for anybody is just that.. you're just riding. you need to drive & be in control of your own life. I'm 25, been there and done that. do what's best for you and the baby.. if the father of the baby isn't going to be around, there's a man who will be. thankfully my fiance & I are expecting Oct. 25th and I don't have the stress you do; however, you are in control of some of yoir stress. let go & let God.. that baby deserves the best.

[513LeeLee]

Just saying i've always wanted to enjoy the first time i find I'm pregnant never would think something like this would make me frown on such a special day i mean i not crying over it(YET LOL) but how selfish of him not to come out and tell me or at least say "i haven't been completely honest im happy to hear WE'RE having a baby but im sorry to tell you i have skeletons in my closet".#i still would be single but i would have more respect for him as a man and my child's father.you understanding?

[NuNuBaybee808]

Aloha so wat exactly are you asking your situation is very interesting to me but I am confused as to wat is ur situation and really think if I knew moa of wat ur trying to do I could be of value  for you... plz help me understand....