She should respect your decision but you should try to explain yourself and how you feel, but that you appreciate everything she's trying to do for you and her little nephew/niece but that you really can't handle it. I've been feeling the same way as in just not wanting to be around people or honestly even talking to people.
This is my third baby and I understand how you feel.. but I have been thinking what I'm going to tell my daughter in the future since she'll probably ask why her brother and sister got a baby shower but she didn't.. it's probably silly but just for that reason I would do a little get together, especially if someone is planning it for you. Just a thought
Thats what ive tried to explain to my sis but she keeps insisting on making something big... My first baby shower turned out to be a cray cray partay until 3 a.m lol obviously my sis friends like to party with my first pregnancy i was more up to it i never had any pains up till i went into labor but this time around im just not feeling it
Its always nice to recieve some things for the baby especially diapers even if you dont want a huge shower do something small and simple and just ask for diapers... if your really not in the mokd then dont do it at all.. I felt sooo tired at the end of my first pregnancy I was in alot of pain in my hips but I enjoyed my shower. Best wishes and a safe delivery
Thank you girls for your advice turns out i talked my sis and mom to do something small with a few of their close friends