With my son i needed something before I could get the epidural. They gave me something to take the eedge off. I didn't remember what it was called but it made me feel drunk. So when my daughter was born and i needed something i said "can i have the drug that makes you feel drunk." They knew exactly what I meant.
Laughing gas, I had it with my first and getting it with my 2nd. It's awesome stuff! :)
There are other pain meds. But I went with epidural. My best friend had something else. It just took the edge off. I forgot what it was called.
I went natural with my last and I got a tub room at my hospital. The tub had a shower and jets. it felt good during my painful contractions. I think being able to try new positions, walking and medicine ball also helps. Nothing to be scared of, you are strong. I tried the epidural with my first and didn't have the results I expected. Honestly preparing yourself mentally but being super determined to grit through it helps. I heard there is a lot of other pain relief measures too, just do what is best for you.
They offer an IV drip if you forego the epideral.