I'm a ftm n a single mom that's how I feel too about taking care of a baby by myself n how difficult it might get n when I start college who's going to take care of my baby I only have a part time job on weekends but as soon as baby is born I can't work n my parents idk how long they will help me I was depressed but now I take it day by day n I love my baby n I'm happy I'm going to be a mommy
I feel the same way .... always wanted to be a great mother but now I'm terrified of the future & child birth
For the most part I dont think anyone is ever 100% ready to be a first time parent. I think of how selfish I am and it scares me that I have to put someone else above myself. I love my son with all my being already but we're humans and this is a drastic life change. We just have to remind ourselves that women have been doing this in all sorts of circumstances andso can we. Good luck ladies.
Yup. I'm a ftm & I feel the same because I wanna be a good mom for my daughter. I don't wanna raise her the way my mother raised me because she was the worst I can honestly say I wish I had a different mom anyone else but her & I wouldn't want my daughter saying that about me in the future. :( this makes me sad I just want to be a good mom & I also feel bad when my husband wants to go out with friends because he's stuck with me... & he's told me before he misses his single life..