Aa
Being induced... What to expect.... And need to vent?
Finally mommys I'm being induced on Monday morning. I'm a little nervous. What should I expect? Do I eat a regular breakfast before I go in? Lol. Will labor be harder? Will it last longer? :/
My whole venting thing is....... My husband.
It seems he has been getting lazier and lazier and it worries me for when my son will come will I be left alone to do everything like now. I have a 2 in a half year old and I have this little boy coming. My husband will not do anything for me and it really pisses me off and stresses me out.. Its gotten to the point were my dad and brother have noticed and it causes tention between them.. I try to make peace maker and cover up for him but I feel like I just make it worse...
For example, my husband works Mon-Fri 7am-5:30ish... I do his laundry , fold and put it up , obviously cook meals for him he always has dinner ready, I'm not a dirty person so my house is always clean. If I dont wash dishes after dinner I wash them first thing in the morning or in the middle of the night if I can't sleep.
I try my hardest to not gripe at my husband but he just gets under my skin.... He can't put his dirty clothes up, he leaves them EVERYWHERE. when he eats he won't put his plate up he leaves it wherever. I have to scream for him to throw the trash and majority of the time he still dont do it... He is the only one working he makes decent pay gets us by. But everytime i tell him i need money for a bill or house items he gets mad and fights about it... Like what am i supppose to do? I dont buy junk i pay our bills and buy our house items like laundry soap, toliet paper , higene etc... I dont get it....
He always "to tired" to help me around the house when he gets off work but he always has enough energy to hang out with a friend......... Which causes ALOT of the problems between us. he usually just takes off for an hour or 2 and comes home but by then me and my daughter are already asleep or I just dont wanna be near him.
we've been meaning to cut down a tree in our front yard , well.... He started it and left it half way done. So today I took it into my own hands and did it myself. Yes I cut the tree down, wasn't that hard I'm pretty proud of myself. I even raked the yard. Cut weeds. I payed his little brothers to (age 11 & 7) to help me throw all the trash in the alley. He got mad at me.... cause he said we dont have the money to be paying others. But the way I see it is if I dont find someone to help me do it how is it gonna get done because I can't count on him to do it? Today my parents came over to help me with some last minute trash work, my dad was furious that I did the yard and trees. But it needs to get done and well my dad is 60yrs old I can't have him in 100° doing my house problems.. I'm just worried NY marriage isn't gonna work and it gonna get worse once my son comes... I dont see him helping me with him, I dong see him helping with changes , baths , feeding , getting up at night.... Nothing :(
Do I try harder or do I just focus on me and my kids and try for a job ? I really need some answers or advice cause I have been stressing alot about it.... And I dont have friends to talk to .. I dont have any at all actually. And I can't speak with my mother about this cause I know she dont like him and we'll then it goes to my dad then my brother then the rest of the family lol.. I just need a little guidance ? :(
My whole venting thing is....... My husband.
It seems he has been getting lazier and lazier and it worries me for when my son will come will I be left alone to do everything like now. I have a 2 in a half year old and I have this little boy coming. My husband will not do anything for me and it really pisses me off and stresses me out.. Its gotten to the point were my dad and brother have noticed and it causes tention between them.. I try to make peace maker and cover up for him but I feel like I just make it worse...
For example, my husband works Mon-Fri 7am-5:30ish... I do his laundry , fold and put it up , obviously cook meals for him he always has dinner ready, I'm not a dirty person so my house is always clean. If I dont wash dishes after dinner I wash them first thing in the morning or in the middle of the night if I can't sleep.
I try my hardest to not gripe at my husband but he just gets under my skin.... He can't put his dirty clothes up, he leaves them EVERYWHERE. when he eats he won't put his plate up he leaves it wherever. I have to scream for him to throw the trash and majority of the time he still dont do it... He is the only one working he makes decent pay gets us by. But everytime i tell him i need money for a bill or house items he gets mad and fights about it... Like what am i supppose to do? I dont buy junk i pay our bills and buy our house items like laundry soap, toliet paper , higene etc... I dont get it....
He always "to tired" to help me around the house when he gets off work but he always has enough energy to hang out with a friend......... Which causes ALOT of the problems between us. he usually just takes off for an hour or 2 and comes home but by then me and my daughter are already asleep or I just dont wanna be near him.
we've been meaning to cut down a tree in our front yard , well.... He started it and left it half way done. So today I took it into my own hands and did it myself. Yes I cut the tree down, wasn't that hard I'm pretty proud of myself. I even raked the yard. Cut weeds. I payed his little brothers to (age 11 & 7) to help me throw all the trash in the alley. He got mad at me.... cause he said we dont have the money to be paying others. But the way I see it is if I dont find someone to help me do it how is it gonna get done because I can't count on him to do it? Today my parents came over to help me with some last minute trash work, my dad was furious that I did the yard and trees. But it needs to get done and well my dad is 60yrs old I can't have him in 100° doing my house problems.. I'm just worried NY marriage isn't gonna work and it gonna get worse once my son comes... I dont see him helping me with him, I dong see him helping with changes , baths , feeding , getting up at night.... Nothing :(
Do I try harder or do I just focus on me and my kids and try for a job ? I really need some answers or advice cause I have been stressing alot about it.... And I dont have friends to talk to .. I dont have any at all actually. And I can't speak with my mother about this cause I know she dont like him and we'll then it goes to my dad then my brother then the rest of the family lol.. I just need a little guidance ? :(
I am in the same boat and although mine don't leave to hang with friends just sits at table bitching me n him have been together for 10yrs and it hasn't got better he only deals with diapers n baths when I'm not home. I'm left doing it but it doesn't bother me anymoee. I have #4 due in 33 days
You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Social Community
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.
