Boyfriend help please!!

[marie8736]

I didnt know My boyfriend also my baby daddy for that long.. Weve been together for a year now.. I trusted him and everything untill he lied to me and disrespected me.. Well last night he lied to me about watching tv with his family he told me he was sleeping.. Why  does he have to lie? He is a very very secretive person

[marie8736]

They never see the annoyance they cause .. Not even when its done to them

[marie8736]

He calls me a liar when i just forget to say something and ill tell him later.. He just says liar liar liar ugh fml

[carmarie25]

Me and my hubby havr been together for 9 years and he still mever gives me the full story on things it drives me crazy he will tell me hes going to the gym and then 3 hours later returns home and says welk i had to stop at my dads then my friends quick blah blah blah and i have told him for the past 9 years can u just call me and let me know exactly what ur doing so im not sittig here waitig for u?! But in all honesty with him he just doesnt think its a big deal he doesnt see the annnoyence it causes!

[marie8736]

He calls me a liar when i just forget to say something and ill tell him later.. He just says liar liar liar ugh fml

[marie8736]

And if i (he calls it) switch my story"

[marie8736]

Hes like that with his family as well.. I dont know how much talking i can do.. He still lies to me still doesnt tell me the truth even tho i know the truth and have proof

[Lauraashley]

I can somewhat understand and relate where your coming from. My hub and I have been together for a little over a year and when we first started dating there were things that were kept secretive or seemed kinda sneaky. I confronted him about everything, even if it was as small as; You said you were going to the store but yet you stayed home (just an example) and we talked it out figured out why he kept things to himself and wouldn't tell me anything. Our issue was that he had trust problems and couldn't really open up and didn't seem the need too, he's very to himself, thats just the way he is and sometimes it takes that "talk" to really connect. Now he tells me EVERYTHING. How he feels, what he's doing, what his plans are etc and it just made it a better relationship. I would definitely say try and bring it up to him, don't do it thru texts or a phone call, do it face to face. Hope this kinda helps! Keep us updated :)

[marie8736]

He doesnt tell me anything about him or his past.. He says its none of my business but het he needed to know everything of mine..