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So im 26 weeks pregnant with my 1st child. This is my boyfriend's first as well and its a boy! I naturally an affectionate person. My boyfriend  hasnt touched me in 2 months and he comes home every day to play his video game and do what he wants. He invites his friend over which i dont mind but i feel like he rather apwnd more time with them than me. He doesn't kiss my belly or talk to the baby unless i kinda force it out of him. I feel  lonely, irritated, depressed, horny and all of the above. His excuse is he is trying to enjoy it ll now because onve the baby is here he and I will have all of his attention but what im trying to get him to understand right now is the baby & i need his attention now we shouldn't have to wait and the baby will have a 1,000% of both of our time we will barely have time for each other especially qirh work but he doesnt get it. I tend to cry myself to sleep some nights because it feels like i have a roommate not a spouse and we werent always like this. Im afraid we'll become super distant and whenever we do get married i won't be interested. Am I  over exaggerating...could it be my hormones? What should i do?
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I am going through the same thing, express how you feel and try to make him understand what you're going through.
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Some guys just don't show emotion or anything until baby arrives.  Men can be insensitive pRicks unfortunately
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