Dealing with the loss of a child and now pregnancy

[summ914]

I recently lost my 1 1/2 year old beautiful baby boy to an accidental drowning and found out 7 months later I'm pregnant, has anyone had similar experiences? how have you felt with the pregnancy? Babies are miracles and what a blessing to be pregnant and nothing could ever replace my little angel, but how do you Handel the pregnancy while still griving the loss of a child?

[summ914]

Thank you all for your encouraging words, my emotions have been all over the place and I know nothing could ever replace my little boy I think of him everyday. I am very excited to be blessed with this baby and I'm hoping it brings joy not only to me but my whole family. I do worry about being judged by people I know, but this pregnancy happened and if it wasn't right it wouldn't have happened. I miss my boy soo much it breaks my heart, but I hope he watches over us and his new little brother or sister.

[trish1122]

I can only imagine your feeling so many things right now... but I'm sure he's in heaven knowing he's gonna be a big brother.. he's you're guardian angel ..staying strong is gonna be very hard but very important ! God bless hun i couldn't imagine.  So sorry for your loss!

[jolayla]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Mine may not be the same but I was 16 weeks pregnant and my water broke with my son I had to deliver him with him not being fully developed he couldn't survive. This all happened June 12 2014. I am now 7 weeks pregnant and found out in September with it being so close and me going through grief still from loosing my son I think God everyday he is giving me a second chance I know my son is in heaven looking over us and will be the best guardian angle my baby I will have in May could ask for. Its not easy but you have to keep your head up. Think of the positive not the negative. You have to stay strong for your child you are having now and just know your son will be the best guardian angle you could ask for for your unborn child. Again I am so sorry for your loss and no one can take the pain away or make you feel any better about your situation you my dear have to find out what it is that will help you grieve and be happy. Just know your son is in baby heaven being taken care of better than ever a and not feeling any pain waiting on you too come up there and be with him. My prayers go out to you and your family.

[DenziWife]

iknow exactly how u feel i löst my babygirl at 6 weeks, i know its harder on u becuz u have more memories with Ur son, im now 26 weeks and my baby wouldve been 1yr old this past May, u cant help but worry becuz Thats the Most hurtful thing losing a child so young, i pray every nite that everything be ok, i pretty much just try to think positive our Children were just angels nd god call them home gudluck and everything is gonna be ok

[manky88]

so sorry for your loss i cant fully imagine but almost had that happen with my 4yr old son and 8yr old daughter scared me to death but luckily got them just in time, many blessings... some may say you lost and now hes reborn again if you believe in that stuff... or that GOD have you another being you lost one. again so very sorry breaks my heart being so close to same situation prayers to you an  your family and dont forget you lost him your not replacing him and you will never forget him he will always be with u and your family in your heart and one day you will see him again

[Pattyann215]

I couldn't even imagine. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong hun and god bless

[miracle_mommy2014]

Oh wow! I'm so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine what you are going through.

[Calebmommy14]

My blessings go to you and be strong  for those baby  keep  your head high

[RedRose28]

Im so sorry for you loss!!! :( God must have a plan for you to give you another little blessing.

[Ariasmommy04]

my prayers go to you and your family . Im so sorry for your loss .

[Summer14baby]

I'm FTM, your story is heart breaking, god bless you!

[bentsmommy14]

I have no idea what you are going through but your story breaks my heart I'm so sorry for your loss