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Depression...Help.!!

First time mommy,19...!
I'm recently 11weeks. I found out I was pregnant when I was 7 weeks.
At first I thou I just had a stomach virus because I was very sick went to the doc. And they prescribed some medicine.I thought hopefully this works. It didn't kept feeling sick and so tired. My mom found out I was pregnant before I did. That day ended me. I was nor am ready for a baby. I feel so lonely and just wanna stay in my room, I feel so ashamed.! Having a baby was never in my plans at lest not know. I need help because I feel like this depression is causing me to hate my baby and I know that is wrong I mean come on its a part of me. Its a big blessing but I just get a lot of negative thought... Idk what to do.!: (
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9961264 tn?1410873329
The baby does feel stress and emotions that you feel but as long, so just try to stay positive. The more you tell yourself youre gonna be okay, the more you will believe it. And in the end, it WILL be okay. Good luck with everything! (: if you ever have any questions. We are all here to help! (: just know that sometimes we dont know all the answers because a lot of us are first time moms and have our own questions(:
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Thank you so much you two have no idea how you have helped me.!

Everything happens for a reason. God gave me a baby and yes if I was been careful I wouldn't be in this situation, but I am. So know just keep moving fwd. Right.??  Do you think my baby feels all the anger I feel??? I want to injoy this part of my life. It seems so hard thou.
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Thank you so much you two have no idea how you have helped me.!

Everything happens for a reason. God gave me a baby and yes if I was been careful I wouldn't be in this situation, but I am. So know just keep moving fwd. Right.??  Do you think my baby feels all the anger I feel??? I want to injoy this part of my life. It seems so hard thou.
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I'm sorry your feeling like this you have a over load of hormones right now that can take  you either way. Think positive most females don't have a chance to have a baby. God works for many reasons...I think if you relax and start enjoying the fact that you have something (a baby) growing inside you, you'll   feel better. I'm now 30 and 8 weeks...I know you pain I was 22 pregnant first time stressed a lot and had a miscarriage...just relax hunny you have people that are there for you! Just know that YOU only can do YOUR best for YOU and YOUR baby. Much love hun if you need someone to talk to you can add me. Try and relax nothing even happens how we want but they happen because it needs to. Have a good daY hun ;-)
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9961264 tn?1410873329
Stressingbis bad for you and the baby. Im also 19 and 37 weeks pregnant. Its scary and its not always where we expected ourselves to be at this age but it is such an amazing experience. You should try to find a pregnancy counselor that will help uiu explore your options and if you decide you want to raise thisbaby they can possibly help you with things you will need. Just know that whether your 19 or 29 being a mom is scary. But as long as you love and care for your baby, no one can honestly say your a bad mom because you were "too young". There are so many 19 year olds on here and we are all scared but we are all excited because we know that all of this is a blessing♡ goodnluck, and dont look down upon yourself, just find the support you need (this group, a counselor, family, friends etc..) and know that it will all be alright. And it can and will work out for the best(:
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