Ugh

[vanii_cortes]

So its official im getting a divorce and have become a single mom of a 6 month old and with 4 months pregnant. I hate this so much i never wanted to have my girls without their dad and mom being together. All cause he is so immature and has no idea if he loves me or not and just wants to be able to go out without anyone getting mad at him. Sorry no question just needed to vent

[collinsmumma]

Sometimes what's best for the kids is seperated parents. I know it's heartbreaking. But obviously, your husband is very selfish if that's why he wants to get a divorce. Let him go hun. Eventually you'll find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated and will love your kids as much as they love you. It's sad but sometimes the father of your kid/kids isn't who you were suppose to be with forever. You will be more than okay :) Take it one day at a time. And when he finally does come around and realize that he's made a mistake (which he will eventually), don't go back to him. People like him never truly change.

[Masoak]

I went thru the exact thing with my ex..I have 2 boys 17 months apart we were enagaged he cheated I got pregnant with my 2nd and same thing he wanted me to possibly abort or hoped for me to miscarry...he left when I was 11 weeks pregnant...he turned to drugs for a bit but went to rehab and was clean and sober for birth or son we made it work for 2 more good yrs after that but he chose non sobriety again and I knew the only way our relationship would work is if he was sober because I have zero trust for him...mother's are strong u are going to get thru I did it on my own for a year and a half my ex does not help out financially at all...they will grow up and realize what they left as my ex did but when he was ready I had already met someone new and great

[Triana_Smith]

Try to give him time I literally just went through this with my husband we've been married a year and have dated for 6! We were high school sweethearts he wanted to "do him" and "find himself" which meant cheating and not wanting to be together anymore... Now after MUCH prayer he's come around and realizes he wants his family. Pray and give him and God time before the divorce. It hurts but it'll be worth it in the end! Just have faith

[MothersLoveAlwaysWins]

I made the mistake of getting pregnant after ten years to someone i loved and wanted to have kids now that im 5 months he is keeping his distance so i told him to forget about everything because my ex-husband wants to be a father to my baby and why not when he is the greatest dad to our 10 year old

[collinsmumma]

If he has to think about wether he loves you or not, he doesn't

[vanii_cortes]

I know ill be able to move on but it ***** that he gets to walk away from his kids. It hurts me but i know i did the correct thing asking him for the divorce cause he just wanted me to wait for him to tell me his answer about if he loves me or not but i couldnt wait i cant do that to myself

[tweet28]

It ***** that every time something like this happens,most of mom's have to take on pretty much the whole responsibility of our kids and for the father it's so simple to just walk away....just be strong and worry about your kids, the party life eventually gets boring and leaves you feeling empty the next morning...he will regret it but hopefully this fits into he's head soon and realizes the most important things in life are he's kids.

[KelzLanigan]

Without sounding bad but i believe its a good thing for you… at least you know you can safe guard your children from any future arguments! being a single mum will be hard but you wont get extra stress just trying to keep your family together… i wish you all the best :)

[florcarolina]

I know what you mean its good to let it out, you need a man thats gonna be there not another kid that just wants to have fun

[MacShell23]

I know how that is I have a 10 month old and hell be almost a year when his brother that I'm pregnant Now will be and their father isn't much of a father and very immature

[vanii_cortes]

Thats true but he put me through hell for 2/3 years. He cheated on me while i was pregnant with my now 6 month old daughter and because i found out and got upset i had to be put on bedrest because i was about to miscarry her. This pregnancy he wanted me to have an abortion. Once i told him i couldnt he said he didnt know whether he wants to be with me. I dont need him being negative on me. I think its for the best because i tried to fix things and he didnt want to. That tells me he doesnt love me.

[vanii_cortes]

I hope one day i can find someone who will love to be the father of my girls. My husband forgot my daughter had an appointment cause she is sick. Obviously he doesnt even love his kids if he cant even ask how is daughter is feeling

[vanii_cortes]

I kinda came to that conclusion too