Falling apart

[Ashdub07]

So I found text messages between my husband and like 3 or 4 girls. One he was asking for pics because shes "always been sexy"...she used to date his cousin! And one from Dallas who he was telling he loved and wanted to go are her and take her out...she's also married...and a couple other skanks. It literally broke my heart into pieces and I told him I couldn't do this and gathered my kids and left our new apartment and drove 3 hours back to the old house. I am at such a loss and he has calle and said how much he loves me and it's not over between us. I just don't know what to do. He ****** up. And he won't take responsibility and I can't stay with someone who has no respect for me and this is our third baby! I am just so upset idk what to do.

[ShellyLette]

I would personally ignore his calls and texts for awhile, like ktowne said you need some me time right now to sit and think about things. Do you want to try to work it out? Is this what broke the camels back? Only you know how you feel about him, and yes if you do try to work things out it will be hard. He's broken your trust at this point. Trust is a thing that should be earned so I wouldn't make it easy for him if you do want to continue to be with him. I really hope for the best and I'm truly sorry he's being a di.ck hole :( you seem like a strong woman, and I know it hurts but you can make it through momma

[katngary143]

Ugghh that ***** I have been there is previous relationships and it ***** stumbling upon thoses but everything happens for a reason and if he has done this multiple times then the relationships needs to be reaccess bc that isn't healthy...he needs to just be with himself and figure out what he wants bc I dont think he does...but that isnt any of your concern u just don't stress and just do your own thing and take care of the babies

[Ashdub07]

I should ignore him. I just can't believe this I would never even look at another man and haven't since we've been together and even before we were togeyher when I was so young and stupid and fell head over heels for him and he ******* does this to me? I don't understand and I feel like what did I do wrong but I havent done anything wrong. Just been his support system for years and always backed him up and stood by him and he's doing me like this. I just hate this and I usually have all the answers and advice for people but never thought this would happen to me.

[mommybug5]

My soon to be ex husband was doing the same thing and I did fall for the im sorry over and over. And its never ment and hell just try to be more sneaky about the other girls. Leave him if he's a good dad then it wouldn't hurt for him to still see his kids if you chose to but for your own sanity and well being dont stay. Its not worth the hurt and pain that will continue if you stay. Even though it hurts now you'll get better. I wish you the best of luck

[mommybug5]

My soon to be ex husband was doing the same thing and I did fall for the im sorry over and over. And its never ment and hell just try to be more sneaky about the other girls. Leave him if he's a good dad then it wouldn't hurt for him to still see his kids if you chose to but for your own sanity and well being dont stay. Its not worth the hurt and pain that will continue if you stay. Even though it hurts now you'll get better. I wish you the best of luck

[Ashdub07]

Thank you so much. How did you make it? I feel like its so hard to breathe