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Feeling Real Alone:,(

I'm 15 wks & pregnant with my 3rd child. Mother of 2 kids there both 5 yrs apart different fathers & on 3rd different father I have full responsibility with my oldest her father disappeared on her he doesn't want nothing to with her & my son father cheated on me with his new gf now & yrs later I thought I found love again but he also went back to other baby moms in May & June I found I was pregnant my family found out & mistreats me look down on me because I'm be a mother again I got life in order own apt, car, job, school I'm busy parent but end of the day I'm alone no one to share my special moment of the baby kicks movements or rub my belly talk to someone no one there to comfort me I turn my sister but she hurt me more say she wish I never kept this baby but everyone in my family excite for my baby brother 20 & his gf barely turn 17 there daughter isn't even 1 & they found out 2wks ago they having twins he doesn't have it in orde live mother n law smokes weed abuse his girl but then again he perfect all I want is to be loved by someone yes my kids but there kids they don't understand what I'm going thru I'm going thru this again idk why did I deserve any of this I always been a good woman never cheated never lied I did everything what a man wanted literally & at the end I got sh×ted on I'm be raising another child ALONE I'm not ugly woman I'm not cold hearted & still don't understand why am I going thru this I just want someone to talk to all my so called friends GONE no where to be found I have no one I'm so sad!
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9840853 tn?1407207261
your a brave mom, you raise your kids on your own. although their father was not a responsible all the time. nobodys perfect. every womans problem is a huge piece of their lives on how to be more accurate to resolve it. im proud of you mom! your parenting is excellent!
you can find a great LOVE through your kids. they are your choice now and forever.
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I know exactly what you're going through. I went through that mess with my daughter father. Never blame yourself if you know you were good to him from start to finish. I know it hurts but GOD took him out of your life and all the other guys because YOU are too good of a woman to be men like that. The best way to get over this situation is to focus on your growing baby and your other children. They will always be there and make you happy. Its going to be hard but you'll pull through and bounce back better than ever.  If you ever need an ear you can always message me!
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Keep your head up...do you have a single mommy support group near you? I'm not sure where you are but I'm sure us moms off here will help you... Feel free to message me as well
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Yes God will full in the spot wherever you might be missing yes stop looking he will send one to you just keep being a great mom you will get from someone that appreciate you and stay strong for your kids remember they love you wish u the best I'm here if u ever need to talk
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Awe this breaks my heart. People are soo cruel. Like I wish nothing but the best for you & your children. It's hard to find a good man now days but you will jus let him come to you.
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I'm so sorry, for what you are going through.  Turn to God. Talk to him. I know that sounds funny. God is the only one who can fill that void.  You are never alone. I wish I could give u a hug. Keep being that good person.... keep doin your job as a Mother.  Teach your daughter the same.  I've been there before... married, cheated on... family miles away. Feeling like no one cares. Turn that focus to God. Everything else will fall into place. You will find that person you are looking for.  God bless you and your kids.
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9077628 tn?1411339700
First off, congrats on your new little bundle of joy; doesn't seem like you have much of a support group on your decision but it's good you have your life together!  And as for people looking down on you, screw them! You're obviously very selfless when it comes to your children and that's what matters :)
I know how it is to be alone though, my baby's father isn't around and did some pretty low life things, but we just have to remember we are better than that and our kids will appreciate us being strong and working through it ♡ if you ever need to talk, feel free to message me!
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You have to be stronh for your baby and kids. Depression can hurt the baby as he can feel evrything you feel. Someone will be in ur life , the right person just stop looking for him and thats when you will find it. Best of lucks and remember ur kids before anything or anyone.
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