How can I become more excited?

[Believer204]

Before I receive any hateful comments I just want to start off by saying I'm not looking for attention or pity, I genuinely want some advice. I'm 26 weeks pregnant with my first child. Unfortunately, this pregnancy is the product of a rape situation. Don't get me wrong, I love the life inside of me and recognize it as mine and mine alone, and I know when my boy is officially here I'll be overjoyed. But I feel like I'm not as excited right now as I should be. If anyone knows what I'm going through, can you please give me some tips or things I can do to be more joyful during the remainder of my pregnancy?

[Believer204]

Thank you all for your comments. I was receiving counseling at a church but have recently moved to another state to be with relatives who are more supportive. But I am seeking another counselor. Again, thank you all for you advice. It means a lot.

[momma2201115]

I am 16 weeks with my second. My first child I was beyond scared. I was told from the age of 14 I couldn't have kids. And of course I instantly become a single parent. My parents/family and semi close friends are the ones who helped me. I'm sorry about ur situation. Just don't look at the situation as a negative one. The baby isn't the one who should suffer. I know better said than done

[wayfunmommy]

I can understand where you are coming from. Have you been seeing a counselor?  If so, please continue with that. There are so many mixed emotions that come along with your situation, especially after baby comes. I think finding a way to focus on your baby instead of his origins is a start. I'll be keeping you in my prayers.

[ShalaneMarie]

Oops this is ur first child sorry missed that. I am 14 weeks with my first. I love my child but at times hasn't really sunk in that I am pregnant. Maybe it's something all first time mama's go through

[Jazzydoll]

I feel the same. Its normal I think as preggo ladies we get so damn impatient you know? I'm sure once your baby is here all will be well :) goodluck

[ShalaneMarie]

I first off want to say how sorry I am that this has happened to you. As a rape victim myself I know that healing from this situation takes time strength and courage. Is there any councelling available to you around your area? I would consider talking to someone about the events. May help is this ur first child?

[marijana19]

I am 23 weeks and married and this is also my first child. I dont feel excited at times either, even though we planned to have a baby. at times i feel scared and i have all these thoughts how my life will end now when i have a child. But its pretty normal to be scared and not excited, you cant be excited non stop for 40 weeks. Its just a phase and it will pass. I cheer myself up by laying down and counting kicks or organizing baby clothes. that makes me excited.