unfair just a thought

[havajoon1234]

There are moms praying every second to have healthy pregnancies and have a healthy baby and even be pregnant that theyre stressing so much hoping nothing goes wrong then there's those mothers who keep getting pregnant not wanting the baby referring to it as an accident and they have normal healthy pregnancies where as the other woman I see that take it as a blessing loose their pregnancy I just think its not fair .... But then again life isn't fair ..I think a baby is a blessing it's a miracal its something magical and we should all be thankful and remember that how we came all of us and that's why were here because our parents chose to create us

[4littlelovies]

Its not about how fair life is to anyone life is life and everything that happens in one persons life does not fit some one else's no matter how good or bad it seems goes back to the old saying what's good for the goose is not what's for the gander

[havajoon1234]

Not bashing one anyone I dont even know what post u guys are all talking about but ill read it and see my point is I'm talking from experience I had two friends both were pregnant one of them was drinking smoking weed and always going club Even up until 8,months pregnant my other did everything to be careful ate healthy read all about pregnancy was such a caring mother at the end she lost her baby and the other friend of mine had a healthy baby and she still isn't a bit good mother doesn't give a damn about her child but the one who lost her baby is a better mother to that child that is my point and she's so ungreatful she just says its a mistake baby that is why life isn't fair

[brinajones12]

Omg Dont do that to this lady everyone Dont won't other baby at a certain time in life that Dont mean she's not gonna love it when I found out I was pregnant I was in school I stop going sometimes yes I feel bad cause I feel like I'm not finishing what I started but at the same time I'm looking at what's best for the baby we all on this site for help and answers not to be put down or hurt by someone that might be in the same boat as she is I hope y'all say sorry to that lady cause you are wrong what if that post got her stressing hard because what you said what ppl say out there mouth can be a bad weapon I wanna say more but I'm gonna leave it alone

[courtey_bug]

I completely agree!

[two_princesses]

This is why we should just trust God and know that he has a perfect will and everything will work out.

[ZLtwins]

It took me 10 years to get pregnant and people would always hide their pregnancies and say things like oh dont you hate it when other people just have babies and didnt really want it. That fact that I could not get pregnant has NOTHING to with how other people are feeling. I seen the other womans post and really feel bad for her. She came here and posted an honest post about her feeling and people attack her. Mine or anyone else's infertility issues should make someone else hide how they truly feel its not their fault other people have fertility issues.

[traciv]

Omg get over it. Both of my children were planned doesn't mean that I have been 100 percent excited each time. I have my own doubts and think "what was I thinking doing this again?" Does that make me a bad mother? No it makes me normal because I have fear and anxiety about the most life changing event we can go through. That girl found out last night she was pregnant again. She wanted some words to lift her up not bash her. NY sister was an accident yes a true honest to goodness accident. I was 5 weeks old when my mom got pregnant with her at 19. When my mother talks about it now she will tell you it was the hardest most shameful moment of her life finding out she was pregnant again. She will also tell you looking back she would never change a thing, that my sister was the best accident in the world.

[mommaDof3]

Feel bad for some of your children. They are going to grow up with crappy attitudes that they learn from their parents. It's a shame.

[mommaDof3]

I'm sure you are referring to that recent post where just about half the women on here practically started a mob to lynch that poor woman. So what that she accidentally got pregnant.  She stated that her birth control failed and that she wanted to be able to finish school and live her 20's.  Just because she's not wanting live through her 20's bearing children before she starts her career does not make her wrong, especially if she got pregnant on accident.  It in any way does not mean she is not a good mother or that she doesn't love her babies. Why should she be faulted for those women who have a hard time carrying a pregnancy or even getting pregnant?? She shouldn't!! I wasn't expecting to get pregnant with my 3rd, and this pregnancy was an accident!  Oops! I still love my baby though. Too bad there are such simple minded little people on here. There are people who consume illegal drugs and smoke their entire pregnancies and you all want judge her. Ugh.