Found out my husband is cheating on me

[Mrsjackson0406]

I never thoug he I would be the one posting this. I am due this month. I was playing with my son's iPad and found a photo of a girl in in and a receipt for flowers being ordered. It tool me at a shock because he went to Chicago for a few days on business so I did not think anything of it since I thought I had so much trust in him
I confronted him and he lied, then he eventually told me it was a female he met out there which is bs. I really don't know what to do right now. All I can do is cry. I don't know if I will ever be able to trust him again.what hurt the most was seeing my 7 year old crying. I will not blame myself on him cheating at all. We gave not been having see the last 3 months because I have not been feeling it.

[Briann_Morris]

I'm in the same situation. I'm 7months pregnant and found out 2weeks ago that my husband was cheating on me. He's 26yrs old and decided that he wanted to talk to a 19yr old girl... I'm truly hurt by this because he wanted and begged me for years to start a family and we are expecting our first child a baby girl and he decides to all of a sudden wanna experience other women. Just be strong. I totally understand how it feels.

[newbabymama101]

I am so sorry to hear this but... I'm sorry if it were me I would leave his *** and I know that is a hard thing to do but I'm sorry but us girl do not need to be treated that way... I have been cheated on and let me tell u that was the last thing he did and I found a man who I love dearly and I know u can find one too I thought my life was over but hunny let me tell u its a start to a new and wonderful begining

[lucybooskie]

You just never know nowadays.  I used to think if u luv u luv blindly regardless of faults but that doesn't take the pain away.  Men will never know true love because they can't give life the way we do.  All they do is take.  

[bjm_1125]

It is the best thing for now.. I know it hurts, especially to see your son hurt. But he'll understand when he's older. Keep your head up!

[Mrsjackson0406]

Feel so much better! I got information on the divorce so now I have time until my little man arrive to decide what I want to do. My husband wants to go to counseling now and I am not sure if I want to do that now. I want to give myself a little time to decide what is best for me and my kids. I know now my oldest is hurt because his dad is not in out house but I feel that is the best thing for now.

[Mrsjackson0406]

Thank you for the advice. I would hate to have caught a disease behind him. I actually have it in an account where I am.the sole owner of. I never added him to that account.

[Pray4me2015]

Wow. You do what is best for you and your sons. I am going to say something that is really heard to say so please bear with me. I had a guy cheat on me years ago. He received oral love from some woman on a trip. Luckily for me I am a condom freak and genital inspector. I made him get tested for everything and only get the results with me in the room. He had a very curable STI, but luckily I was clean and done with him. I would ask that you get tested for everything and require him to get tested too. Who knows what he could have brought home while he was being selfish.

Second, move all the money not just the savings into a new account. Clean every single account out, you earned every penny of it and it will be used for your family.

[JayyPerez]

Girl you got this done even trip , a man like that isn't worth it , I hope everything turns out good for you tho and take it easy , do what you got to do for your 2 children .

[Mrsjackson0406]

Thanks ladies. I am going to take it one day at a time. Even though the affair has been going on for a month, it still does not justify his actions. Thankfully our savings is in my account so I have funds to last so I can get bills paid by myself while I am on leave for 4 months.  Know it is going to be hard with a 7 year old and a new born but I have to do what is best for my boys?

[NewatThis7980]

Wow I'm so sorry. I just went through this last week and seen you posted on mine. These men!! Smh. 60% that's a crazy statistic.

The fact that he is blaming YOU really speaks volumes about him. He pretty much made the decision for you with that outlook. So sorry, we will get through this though. I'm just focusing on bringing this baby into the world, then ill deal with my pathetic man.

[karterpaige]

:( i know things are going to be hard but make sure you always put you & your kids first ..if he dont appreciate you and respect you its not worth it no matter how we look pregnant...pregnancy is such a beautiful experience and he should honor you carrying his child and treat you like a queen..because we have to deal with alot while being pregnant and you need support if you have to be your own support so be it ..i wish you the best of luck and i kno its hard but try not to think of him think of the beautiful baby your about to have

[bjm_1125]

You do not deserve that. Don't let a man walk all over you, you'll be fine without him. He clearly doesn't appreciatw what he has and is a fool.. I'm so sorry you have to go through that. Good luck amd TRY to stay positive

[Enacamel123]

If you both try really hard and bring God into your marriage it CAN be worked thru. I know because my husband and I went thru this a couple of years ago. We love the hell out of each other. It's a lot of work, a lot of work but it can be worked thru. You have to have god in it. Trust won't come back right away. By that I mean you won't trust him for a few years. Maybe longer.

[badluckkid]

I read a statistic the other day that shocked me. 60% of men with pregnant wives/girlfriends, cheat on them. They look elsewhere because we dont look or feel like we used to. I really want to believe that my guy is not like that but it is hard. I am due in a month also, so I feel so bad for you as well. I am sorry this is happening to you. I wish the best for you and your children.

[Mrsjackson0406]

I don't think I can go through with the marriage. Trust plays a big factor in a relationship. I did not have a family so I wanted my kids to have one, but since their dad blames me for him cheating, I have to let it go. I will probably wait until I have my son this month and deal with divorce papers. I already told him I don't want him there when I go into labor, so he should be aware of it. I really don't even want him around me. Just the thought of him cheating makes me sick to my stomach.

[Kimberlyrios1996]

I know how u feel my Boyfriend cheated on me with some Girl. And Honestly i dont trust him i love him but dont trust him. People say u cant gave a realtionship without tust i disagree because i have that. And Honestly he has his phone unlocked everything unlocked. We have a App on our phones that lets us know whos texting us and lets us read the texts messages and favebook app and everything. That was my condition on getting back with him im now 30 weeks and Honestly we have been at this since i was 3 weeks pregnant... so maybe talk about it with him. And get to terms.

[a5hl3y2016]

Im really sorry! I know that's very hard to go through especially since you're due anytime now but you have to stay positive for the baby inside of you. That's so foul to cheat on your wife especially while pregnant -all the things us females go through while pregnant and this is the second child! I can't say you two won't be able to work it out but trust will take a while to regain. However focus on your children and in time when you can,you will have a clear mind as to what steps you would want to take to work on your marriage or to leave your husband.