Marrige is not hard work. Maybe it is for some people, but It ain't for me an my hubby. Of course we have our ups and downs, everyone does. But it's NOT hard work to us because we love each other unconditionally. We get along great! We've lived together ever since my mom passed away when I was 15. We got our own place together 4 months later an I married him two months before I turned 18:) this is our first baby an we couldn't be more happier! :D congrats btw!! :)))
The way I see it is if y'all love each other then do it. My fiance and I are getting married next week. We have been together for 5 years and have known each other for 10 years. He is 23 and I am 20. We live together and do everything together. It has to be an equal partnership. So congrats to you and your soon to be husband.
I know yall are trying to convince her that young marriages last but most don't, and just because someone is married for 4 years or 10 doesn't mean something can't happen down the road. There are people that would be married for 20 something years then end up getting a divorce. I get you're in love, I thought I was in love with someone at 15 dated him for about 4 years and ended up marrying someone else I dated in high school. But in the end its going to be up to the both of you no matter what people say.
If its OK to be a teen mom why would it not be OK to be a teen bride? Marriage is hard at any age! You just have to be committed and work through it.
I have been with my husband for seven years this year and barely got married. I believe it depends on the people. We waited but I'm happy we finally tied the not. We have also been together since he was 15 n I was 17
Marriage IS hard work...whether you're with the most amazing man on the planet or not. My husband is my world, I absolutely adore him and am thankful for him every day. He is faithful, he is supportive, kind, silly, and my best friend. It is STILL work sometimes. It's not filled with sunshine and rainbows 24/7. No marriage is like that, because we are human. Humans do not get along all the time, agree on absolutely everything, not go through rough times emotionally, financially, physically, etc. don't be unrealistic, she needs to hear truth.