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Hate When People Assume ;/

Well, Im a very private person. I dont really like people in my business, like at all. Me and my baby's father is still together and we're happy :] . The thing is, I never brung him around my family before. Me and my family hardly get a long lol so when they ask if me and my baby daddy still together, I just be like something like that. I dont really give details about whats going on between the two of us and they hate that :] Lol so they assume the worst, like my baby daddy doesn't want to be there for his child, or he left me a single mom lmao. Like I said I'm very private about my private life, its none of their business lol but sometimes I want to just put them in their places lol
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Yeah I don't tell anyone about my relationship. People assume **** anyway so I might as well keep it private. I don't even post about it on Facebook even though me and him are doing great.
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Nia you not lying girl.
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Mahmah yes, lol I just find it sad how much people get mad that you keep your business to yourself.
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i feel ya i have family whom when they see me they wanna take everything out of me but hell no i always change subject or ignore them shiiit its my life no ones buisness ;)
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They ain't **** wanna be your friend when you miserable like them. But against you when you happy. I just say misery loves company.
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I feel your pain I only want my mother and grandmother to know but because my 21st birthday was coming up and we had planned a huge drinking bash I tried canceling and they started saying I'm too good to spend my birthday with them so I ended up telling them I'm pregnant so no bash but I plan on not telling them what the sex is
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Nia omg, I thought I was the only one with this problem lol. Its a shame how messy family can be :] that's crazy but I don't even bring my man around them, and when people do bring their significant other around my family they always have something negative to say. I don't have time lol
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Girl I know exactly where you coming from. They want yo down fall because they can't be in your business my family do the same thing. They know barely anything about my husband and just assume he's beating on just by their imagination lol. And assumes he's not gonna stay around. When I've known him way longer than they know. Don't put them in they place I just ignore them cause every time I or we come around they be mad cause where always happy.
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No, trust me that's not the reason. They are very messy plus you must didn't read when I wrote we hardly get a long lol they are constantly trying to find negatives in my pregnancy, rather than the positive. My cousin whom had her baby at 15, they dont even ask her about stuff like that. [Im 19 & this is my first child] They always tty to put me on the spot, well that's how I feel.
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Families will always assume the worst. Its not that that they're being nosey they're just looking out for you.
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