Aa
Sick of been second best!!
So im 22weeks pregnant and have a 2 year old son and my partner things its fine to do anything he wants to do. He doesn't think of me at all! I tell him im not happy and he has more responsibilities but still does as he likes. I mean I dont want to sound like a moan but he goes fishing when he wants to and is out all the time and I look after our son by myself which I dont mind lol but what when there is 2 or I get bigger, I have fluid problems in my pregnancy and dont want the stress, can anyone help me before I walk out on him please :'( x
We will see? Make or break all I can say I have plenty of support behind me to do it all alone.
Sounds a good idea, i hope you can get some sense through to him (: x
Im glad someone finally agrees with me, hopefully he will be home soon and I will talk to him, if he doesn't listen this time he can go stay at his parents house while their away. Wish I knew pregnant people near me to talk to and share my problems with.x
Ask him to leave for a while instead? If he won't listen then i think it's time you took some action, it's not fair if he's not looking after your son, especially while you're pregnant :/
The thing is thou its my house and I dont want to leave it, we sit down and talk about it but it just goes in one ear and out the other, my parents dont get on with him either so I cant talk to them about it cause I know what they'll say. We have been together 4 years and I dont want to throw it away because I do love him and I dont want to spite my son not seeing him, its so hard!
Maybe take your son and leave for a little while and make your partner realise what he's missing. You need to put yourself and your children first and some time away to focus on just you might do you both some good. If it doesn't work out well then i guess it would be for the best but i really hope you get things worked out :( x
Dont Stress yourself Out . Your Pregnant. Think of your little Ones . I would Try to sit down and talk to him and let him know how you feel, if that does not work I would Pack up his things and sit it by the door, that's just my opinion
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