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I'm 9 weeks & I'm curious too know when is it safe too have sex again? I just wanna be on the safe side.
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Just remember he sees you differently than you see yourself. He might just be curious about your belly and what you're going through, so ask him if he has questions.
Idk. When I see a pregnant woman I never think, "Oh my gosh, what a fat disgusting cow!" and nobody is thinking that about us, even though that's how we see ourselves.
Just remember, the meanest mean girl lives in your head. Don't invite her to the bedroom, she's not welcome.
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Unless you are high risk or have placenta preveia then you're fine.
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Trust me im going threw the same thing right now. I keep having break downs because I dont feel sexy anymore like at all... sometimes I feel like while were having sex he's looking at my belly and thinking "oh my god shes getting huge..." he claims he doesnt look at my belly at all but I've caught him many times and I just feel super insecure! i wish there was a better way to cope with this issue.. I feel humiliated of coarse I love my baby girl and I wouldn't ever take back what I have but damn sometimes I just wish my belly would go down just long enough to have a wonderful night of sex without thinking my man is looking at me and thinking im huge.. I guess im just worried about him judging me.. or what hes thinking about me constantly its gotten to the point where it's not even during sex.. Its all the time. Im so insecure and very afraid of what hes thinking.. thanks for letting me rant everyone I really need feedback on this one girls!  ),: im so sick of crying about it!
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I know!!! N my boyfriend tries to make me feel more thn beautiful, bt its hard to except his compliments whn, like u said, i dnt feel so sexy, or like my big ol' belly çud even a tiny bit be a turn on during sex... i jst need to try n keep my head up n tht i wnt have a big belly 4evr n whn tht bellys gone we will have sumthing precious come outta tht big belly, lol (-: n thank u so much for the feed bak, means a lot!
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I feel the same exact way but if you have a good man he'll tell you that you look beautiful either way and that helps. I feel fatter than fat and I have to ignore it most of the time to even enjoy having sex which is rough but my man loves my belly and makes me feel beautiful for the most part. Its just rough seeing that giant belly at 26 weeks and trying to stay focused on being sexual at the same time.
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Im feeling fat n nt so pretty now tht im a lil over 26 wks pregnant, n nt my skinny self rt now... is this normal, n wht, if nething, can i do ab it?...
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Girl get it on!!!! Lol! The first couple weeks of being pregnant is the absolute best sex EVER!!! and it just gets better!! Enjoy it while u can!!
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penetration won't hurt the baby don't worry. actually I was talking to a girl I. here who is like 8 weeks and her n her man have sex up to 6 times  a day. you're fine,no worries. it's after birth you can't have sex for a while.
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Oh okay Lol first baby so just tryna find out. Thank You
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You can have sex anytime ? Unless you're a high risk patient . You can have sex anytime throughout the pregnancy , I'm 31 weeks & me & my boyfriend have had sex since I was 3 weeks pregnant !
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