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Hubby making me sad

My husband won't talk to our baby.. He says "not yet" I'm almost 7 months and he won't talk or read or song to her :( and we don't have a name either. He says we still have 3 months to think about it :( why is he like this..
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I wouldn't worry about it. I don't talk to my baby, he can hear me and my boyfriend. Guys just don't really care for that kinda stuff, he'll feel differently when the baby's actually here.
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134578 tn?1693250592
The baby will hear his voice just fine, he does not need to be singing or reading children's stories.  Don't fret over this.
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I really don't talk to my baby either lol, yea he is just being a man though dont take it to serious! He gone be all over that baby when she is here!
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I don't talk to my babies while I'm still pregnant. Everyone is different. I wouldn't worry about it. It's probably just not his thing
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No he treats me just the same but nicer also always has an arm around me when we're on the street and he keeps his hand on my belly every once in a while. But he says all these things. I just don't get it
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Deep down inside he might not be ready for kids. Maybe it will pass when it's time.  Does he treat you different?
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Yeah my husband is not big on that stuff but he's such an amazing father to our 2 kids... I wouldn't worry too much, some guys just feel awkward as they don't know what they're talking to or if it can hear or whatever... It'd be similar to if someone introduced you to their imaginary friend then asked you to sing a song to them... You might feel awkward too!
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Yea he's just being a man.
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11356079 tn?1421357818
A lot of men don't feel like the baby is real until they see or hold baby...seems silly but they can't wrap their head around it.
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5727805 tn?1378193052
Haha I think that's just men. He will be different when the baby arrives
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