Hubby wants anal.... sorry for tmi but help!!

[KJ_Wright]

I just don't know what to do.. he wants it and i know after i have my baby that it'll be the better thing to do because ill be sore.. but everytime we try its just killing pain. He's never been fond of toys so he just goes straight in instead of going from small to big with a toy or something. We've done it once but i was numb and i don't know why.. help! i really want to satisfy him especially since he only wants to do anal now also because of the baby. Help!! :(

[mama_luther]

They make a gel called tushy tamer and it is a relaxant or your butt cause having something going inside it isn't natural but once you get used to it you may like it an also since he doesn't like toys start with fingers and the tip of his p**** but the most important thing is that y'all talk about if before you try it you both need to be on the same page and have a safe word for when you absolutely can't take anymore the more you do it the more tolerance you build up for it and start to enjoy it (sorry about the book)

[Marissa2009]

I don't know if it's ok during pregnancy but a enema! It cleans ur colon out. I did that and then the next day we tried.

[Marissa2009]

I don't know if it's ok during pregnancy but a enema! It cleans ur colon out. I did that and then the next day we tried.

[KJ_Wright]

How exactly do you clean?

[Marissa2009]

This sounds so gross but u can have him finger ur rectum first. I knew my hubby and I were guna do this so I cleanesed first. That also helps. Try laying down both on ur sides where ur relaxed. That maybe also help if u want to try once more

[Marissa2009]

This sounds so gross but u can have him finger ur rectum first. I knew my hubby and I were guna do this so I cleanesed first. That also helps. Try laying down both on ur sides where ur relaxed. That maybe also help if u want to try once more

[KJ_Wright]

And the last time we tried, he went in and i almost passed out from the pain so my instincts were to get to the ground so i squatted down after he moved out. He just got out of the shower and wouldn't talk about it. I felt so bad. I started crying because i felt like i can't do it.

[KJ_Wright]

I have such bad acid reflux during pregnancy i cant do **'s anymore.. and everytime we've tried was in the shower so we would have the water... but it doesn't seem to help. I'm always turned on when we kiss because my hormones are way crazy now. I just don't know what to do..

[jess-ann5]

I don't know why it censored me. I was talking about oral.  lol

[Marissa2009]

I can't stand anal personally. It hurts too bad and I'm not into toys. But I understand where ur coming from. He could always get lube to make it feel a little better. Also a tip when we did do it that way my hubby masterbated me and was kissing all over my neck etc so that kind of turned me on abd made it a bit easier

[jess-ann5]

I would offer **'s. I am not into anal either. Doc told me it can cause involuntary bowel movements... Oh now ma'am. Lol

After the baby is born, I plan to satisfy my man with **'s. I don't care what he wants. Lol