Husband Problems.

[ZM2014]

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 months now. When we were engaged he was crazy in love with me and all he wanted to do was spend time with me and kiss me and even do it. We never really did anything until we got married. He wasn't a virgin obviously bcuz he has 2 kids from his ex girlfriend, but I was a virgin until 2 months after my marriage. I was really scared to do it because I'm really tight down there and then one day I used this numbing gel and I didn't feel a thing and I finally lost my virginity. But anyways, now that it's almost 4 months that my husband and I have been married, I feel like he doesn't wanna do it with me. He always comes home and tells me he's tired or he doesn't feel like it. I always dress up and put make up and light candles, whatever it may be I feel like he just doesn't wanna do it. It makes me so mad because I think about him and his ex and how much fun they had and now I'm stuck here and I can't do anything. His family takes his side whenever I tell them something is wrong and they blame me. I try to let him slide and I try so hard to not make a big deal out of it but he just doesn't wanna do it with me. I don't understand. And whenever his ex talks to one of his siblings I get mad cuz his ex wants to talk to him. And then we fight and he tells me that his ex knows how to fight.. (like if we we're to fight she'd win). I'm just tired. Tired of everything.

[Vanna2723]

Have you offered something else? I mean if you're comfortable with it. I mean maybe you could talk with him and see if he just needs to be turned on another way. I found out after like 6 months that my husband doesn't like lingerie or makeup. He later just told me he just wants naked and lights on lol. Also have you tried just going up and groping him? Like casully just go up and kiss him when he gets home or something and just over the pants? It might be with a shot lol sorry tmi. In the long run itll be better just to ask him

[fefesbabynumtwo]

Hun not him!

[fefesbabynumtwo]

I would just keep trying to talk to him. Tell him what you said here and don't let go till your satisfied with his answer. Sorry to hear about your loss. Good luck him!

[ZM2014]

I was, but not anymore. I had a miscarriage and I did talk to him and he keeps apologizing but never stop doing what he does

[fefesbabynumtwo]

Are you pregnant? A lot of men tend to back off sex because they are scared it will hurt the baby. Have you tried talking to him about why he's Not interested anymore?