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mini rant
I know I'm hormonal right but ugh I get beyond irritated at my significant other for being so careless about picking up after himself. I just came home from working nightshift so he had already left for work, but didnt care to pick up his clothes and dirty socks from the livingroom, the comforter and pillows on our bed were everywhere, there were wet towels on the floor from his shower and to top it all off, he ate the apple fritter I had bought for myself yesterday! You never eat a pregnant woman's treats lol. I'm just blown away by how slobbish guys can be and it doesnt bother them in the least. I do wish his mother would have taught him to pick up after himself better. Sorry, I just needed to vent so I don't go pregzilla on him later =/
Well thank goodness my husband and i are both clean freaks lol he does however leaves his socks in the living room :/
Wow, I thought my man was the only slob. The only time he cleans if I am home and make him or call him and yell. Or when he thinks he get something in return if u know what I mean. Don't feel bad u r not the girl who goes thru it. The only thing I will say my man knows better is he doesn't mess with my snacks when pregnant and he knows when I have had enough of his messiness.
My boyfriend and I live with my parents still but we have our own room an the baby's crib is in here and set up and he throws everything in there and when clothes are done from washing he puts them in there and will not fold them I have to after a long day and my feet are swelled and he can't pick up the room when I ask him to until I get up and start doing it men make me so mad I tell my son everyday he better not come out like his father lol harsh but its kinda true on some things good luck
OMG! THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL NO HELPING CLEAN ANYTHING SMH BLACKS EVERYWHERE BEER BOTTLES EVERYWHERE LIKE HELP!!! LOL THEN HE'LL PROMISE HE WILL HELP AND TELL ME NOT TO TOUCH THE TRASH AND MOVE THINGS AROUND BUT IF I DON'T HE WILL LEAVE IT THERE ONE TIME I TRIED AND LEFT THE TRASH THERE FOR 3 DAYS!! SO I GOT UP AS TOOK IT OUT MYSELF HE WAS OUTSIDE WITH HIS FRIENDS AND HAD THE NERVE TO ASK ME WTF AM I DOING SAYING I DON'T LISTEN TO HIM THEN GOING TO SAY DON'T YOU KNOW YOU PREGNANT AND I JUST SNAPPED I DIDN'T MEAN TO BUT I JUST COMPLETELY WENT OFF! I FELT BAD AFTERWARDS BUT THE NERVE UGH MEN! BUT I LOVE HIM
Not all men first time daddy but I'd say 92% the other 8 % are rare and definitely a keeper ;))
I feel the same way!! And I don't work either so it my job too. And I have a 4yr old a 2yr old and my husband seems like a 5yr old leaves his clothes including socks! All over. Not only do I have to cook I have to serve then clean up after him you would think that just MAYBE he could take his plate to the sink! Or maybe just one morning he could ask me what I would like for breakfast instead of going "I'm hungry" I don't know if I get to 9 months and he's not being more considerate of me I might have to smack him!
Oh my gosh I get annoyed at everything these boys don't do these days! (I live with not only my fiance but his equally if not more so slobbish brother) I am the only one without a job so most of the time, I don't mind being the only one who cleans but they seriously don't make it easy!! They both leave their nasty dirty socks everywhere too, and 95% of the time, their food trash/cups/plates etc as well. Every time I get the apartment to look nice and clean, the very next day, they trash it and I try so hard not to get mad and ***** at them because I'm at home all day - it's sort of my job but DAMN! I'm almost 9 months pregnant and it's not easy and I've pretty much given up.
Pick up all of his messes & make one huge pile sumwhere he will notice...like in his closet. Then ask him if he moved ur fritter. I bet he'll stop!
Yes good advice specialmom, communication is the key to a healthy relationship that's for sure (and great idea to hide my treats hahaha!) Thanks ladies for your comments, it really did help me cheer up :) I just struggle with telling him things I want him to work on because I get accused of nagging. It's a lot easier to discuss things with someone when you're not boiling mad so being able to vent definitely helped. Thanks again!
Men! Grrrr. You know, prior to having your baby, I'd sit down with him and discuss expectations and division of labor. Otherwise, you will be nuts cleaning up after babies, toddlers AND husband. I'm shocked at the way my house can look 5 minutes after I straighten it on a regular basis so at least the other adult in the house with me can help out, right? So, talk about what you WANT him to do. Be really clear. Wet towels always hung up and not on floor. Dirty clothes IN hamper always. Think about what is most important to you. I can live with a messed up bed and straighten it up myself but if you want him to do that too, let him know. Tell him it is important you are a team. WORKING TOGETHER. I have a list of my husband's JOBS on top of usual straightening up. He gets to clean the upstairs toilets. :>) I do the downstairs one. I just wrote it out. I'm a stay at home mom so do most of the housework but on weekends, he can help out! And if you are working too, you need him to be a team mate and work on this stuff with you.
As to the apple fritter . . . I HIDE my treats. :>) good luck hon
As to the apple fritter . . . I HIDE my treats. :>) good luck hon
How cute tell him how you feel but the picture of you eating him is hilarious do it to brake the ice before the conversation good luck mommy
Bahaha I may be doing an art project later, thanks emi. And what the hell is it about men and leaving their socks everywhere?! It's nice to know you share my pain missy. Maybe we should stuff them down their throats next time they leave them in a clean room ;)
Luckily my husband tries to help but my problem is my 3 year old trying to keep up with her and her messes wish I could afford a maid I'm still in early stages in eleventh week and when I get up to clean and I start to bend I just start throwing up
Haha love that i idea LOL.. anyways I to am so feed up with my bf too. Ill clean and he'll just come home throw is socks in the middle of the clean living room or ill have the kitchen so clean and he'll get up and make something to eat worst part is, it seems there was a cook off in the kitchen when hes done! Drives me up the freaking wall. Lots of men are so insensitive and ignorant! I swear I could just throat punch him every other day!! Only 4 weeks left till due date hoping sooner though for my sanity sake
Lol. You should draw a picture of yourself as Pregzilla eating him for him eating your apple fritter. And post on the fridge.
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