I could really really use advice or encouragement

[brsndta04]

Basically what's happening is I've lately been having relationship issues.  Well so I thought.  But after a few days of thinking on it maybe I'm just crazy?

I love my husband.  We were together a few years before we got engaged and married. We lived together for over a year before I got pregnant.  He has never cheated on me. I don't think he's ever lied to me. He comes home every day. He's supporting.  I have never had a single trust issue with him or anything pre pregnancy.  

Well lately everything he does bugs me. And I can't shake it. So much so that now I'm starting to snap and be rude to him and such. His snoring bugs me. Every bump he runs over in the road bugs me. Every little thing.  I don't mean to but I can't seem to stop? And I'm questioning everything!  I mean he can't even text without me being sure he's got another girl he's texting!  I've become so paranoid that he's cheating that sometimes I can't help but bawl my eyes out.

I'm not sure if I'm valid of just crazy hormonal. I've never had any issues or suspected him of anything until recently.  Probably not till I hot 13 weeks. He gets really frustrated and says I've been being weird and aggressive.  I'm a very passive person so this is not like me at all. Idk what to do.

I feel bad I'm acting this way. Especially since I don't actually have a reason to think he's cheating.  But I can't get it out of my head!

Someone please tell me I'm not crazy? It's making me rethink my whole relationship which has been perfect and I don't want to mess it up

[MommyToBe42015]

IDK but you need to go get checked out

[royalspeacial]

OK waking UP my Man now thanks!!!

[royalspeacial]

If I am can the doctors stop it? I think its too late already woke up in b f'ed up situation.........

[vanii_cortes]

@royalspecial im sorry for your loss but have someone drive you or call 911 but dont wait it out you need to make sure your little one is okay

[royalspeacial]

I'm scared I've lost a baby b4 and I am in so much pain right I can't move!!

[MommyToBe42015]

royal yes go to the e.R and the actual question. You should get time away a bit just the 2 of you when things go bad this might be the only thing you can do that'll make it good again

[vanii_cortes]

@royalspecial yesss go to the er just to make sure everything is fine

[royalspeacial]

I'm 10 weeks and having a lot of pain and bleeding\cloting what does this mean? Should I be going yo the Er?

[dee_lopez]

Lol honestly I think its just your hormones. I got like that also and would look constantly in the beginning of my pregnancy and I never found a thing! Then I gradually backed off. Its just that we get crazy and hormonal and MEAN sometimes not to mention we don't feel like we look our best, we'll go somewhere to eat or to the store and then there's this twenty-something in some *** shorts just giggling and smiling and my fiance is NOT unattractive in the least so sometimes they're smiling at him and I'm like "BIIIITCH HELL NO" And he'll just grab me by my waist and rub my belly and hug me and he's like calm down I love only you. He always makes me feel better. And that will refrain me from kick in someone's *** pregnant and all. LOL So it could be just your hormones. It'll be ok. Just give your hubby a break and even when your pissed at him just walk over to him and give him a hug or a kiss or joke around with him and takn to him. Don't let all this come between you guys, he sounds like a really good guy. With all these stories I read on here about ppls husbands, fiancés, bf's being so unsupportive we are a couple of the lucky ones. :)

[brsndta04]

Thanks.  I'll try. I did try talking to him once and he cuddled me and tried to reassure me that I was the only girl in his life and he is not going anywhere.  This worked for the night lol. But by the time he was at work the next day I was freaked again.  

He has for our entire relationship made it known that I can go through his phone or emails or Facebook anytime I please.  I never have but recently I thought it would help to see. And I looked and there was absolutely nothing wrong. But I still panick. I feel like a mesx.

A time bomb is a good way to word it

[dee_lopez]

Well IMO it could be your pregnancy. I got like that too. I have a very good fiance he's so supportive and attentive and always doing things for me and his face annoys me lol.. It could be your hormones. But you only know your man and maybe you should tell him and get that reassurance from him. Maybe you guys need like a date night and spend time together and just relax. I'm a ticking time bomb. I was such a fun person to be around I have lot of friends my kids always were talking to me and smiling and just today they "mom, you're so grouchy and angry all the time what's wrong with you what happened to our mom she was fun you're just mean now" I felt really bad so I took them out for pizza and tried to make them feel better. You just have to relax and when he gets like that like getting on your nerves go take a both or read a book just take some time out for you. Hope I helped. Good luck :) I'm 33 weeks btw