freaking out !!#

[soWhatImFlawed]

Im 21 weeks pregnant and i still haven't felt my lil guy move at all its getting to the point were i can't even sleep at night ... I have a new doctor and i feel rushed like she isn't taking her time to make matters worse

[AbbeyMorrison2121]

Oh yeah don't worry then. My doctor said I might not feel anything till 24 weeks. It's completely normal. Everyone's different. My best friend started feeling hers at like 15 weeks. I was totally jealous and worried. But my doc reassured me that all is normal and everyone's different. Also....if your doc isn't taking her time with you and u feel like all your questions aren't being answered maybe u should get a New OB? I switched mine because of that reason. It definitely sucked feeling like I wasn't that important.

[mari2015]

I was the same way I was so worried I would not feel my baby kick but around my 21 to 22 week I felt her move now im 28 and she moves constantly and there getting stronger nd stronger its so amazing !

[soWhatImFlawed]

Thanks u guys and yes this is my first pregnancy

[AbbeyMorrison2121]

Is this your first pregnancy? Don't freak out...easier said then done I know. My doctor told me that ALOT of FTM don't feel anything till 22 or 24 weeks. Everyone is different and ALOT of things come in to play such as where your placenta is located, your weight, the way the baby sits, your uterus etc. So I wouldn't panic. I know how I am though and I'm constantly panicking. 18 weeks and still haven't felt my little guy at all. I bought a fetal Doppler and listen to his heartbeat constantly and it helps. But don't worry....you will feel him soon enough and then it will just drive You crazy :)

[1stTimeMommy23]

You don't feel anything? I'm 22 weeks and just started feeling mine, I didn't feel kicks more like slight movement. A couple days ago I put an ice cube in a sandwich bag  and was touching it to my tummy, hubby and I were amazed at how quick n strong our Lil boys kicks were. I don't think he liked it but it comforted me knowing he's kickin strong :) I wouldn't do it too long or too often though bcuz, like I said, I don't think they like the cold. If u try it let me know :)