This question is more to do with me than my baby I suppose. The "father" is out every night having sex with Tom, **** and Harry, hasn't been there at all for me or my baby even though we've split up, and parties most nights. Yet I know he's going to take me to court for access. He's an ex druggie, didn't know when I got with him, and he wants me to just hand over my baby willingly to save all the court case deals and everything. I don't trust him since I found out what he's really like but I don't know how I can stop him. Can anyone help me, I'm getting to the point where I don't think I can fight anymore.