your young. . I was a teen mother five years ago. now I speak out against it. not that's it's a terrible thing. I was a very mature mother for my age. compared to other teen mothers. I was in an abusive relationship on and off again. for almost six years. till i had enough. guys at that age don't care for nothing but themselves. sad but true they want to have fun. it's gonna be a non stop thing. it's your choice whether or not you want to deal with it. or how ling you are willing to deal with it. My daughter was how you say "planned" yet we both were not ready. though we finished highschool. He still wasn't ready. military couldn't even make him grow up. now he's married to his ex that has a kid from another man and yet she pregnant again. Gonna be his third kid. I met a man. someone who takes care of me and my daughter. So don't be discouraged. your gonna be emotional.
A lot of people are afraid of big chances and responsibilities so they act out