Jealousy ???

[Tay9662]

anybody dealing with a jealous partner?? I mean I can't even get a text from anyone without him being like 'who's that' and geez if it's a guy he flips out I'm not cheating on him and I'm starting to get pissed he's accusing me of this bs I'm almost 8 months pregnant why would I ?????

[K_Bmomma]

Communication is a huge part of a relationship. Work it out or cut it out ( both sides) and you'll have alot less unnecessary drama. Good luck!

[GordonBaby]

Stupid though?? That's a bit harsh being that posting on a public forum your going to get a combination of responses. Your views and others may not be the same nor are the exact circumstances.  

[K_Bmomma]

I didn't see anyone who agreed with the double standard part ( just throwing that out there) the doubled standard shouldn't be okay your right. Maybe if you two have a talk and work out what is expected and accepted from the partener to cut out all the frustration?

[brenhtx]

Sarah765, you know wuzsup

[brenhtx]

Sarah765, you know wuzsup

[Tay9662]

i know he doesnt just text his coworkers though and thats what i mean that stupid double standard he sets then he pouts if my coworker texts me to ask about a shift.. and these people saying they agree with that are stupid

[Tay9662]

No you don't get what I mean I'm not handing out my number to random guys like I work at a restaurant so my male coworkers have my number and will text me to ask me if I want a shift or if I will switch with themand begets pissed there's no need in that BS

[Ashdub07]

Yes Gordonbaby, you hit the nail on the head. I don't think that of someone's accusing it's because they're doing it. I think that we, as a whole, get jaded from our past and have a hard time being comfortable with things like that. Some people don't care, but with my husbands past and the "women" he used to associate with, I feel like he has no business talking to them theyre single and he's a married a s s man. No good can come of it. But I have also gone as far as telling them girls to move on down the line cuz his pants are zipped to them. Lol

[Baby2mommy]

Ha ur in the exact same boat as me literally!!! I'll b 8 months soon to n my husband keep on acusing me of cheating. No matter who I talk to he wants to know who it is n y. If a guy texts me he literally moves completely away n gets this nasty look on his face. Like I could b on here even n hell b like what u reading about, what r u posting, or I bet u talk crap bout me on there. I try not letting it get to me. As long as u know u not cheating I wouldn't let it bother u. I at first thought o well the guilty dog barks the loudest n acussed him of cheating back n in reality hes just scared hes gonna lose me or not b ready for new baby n he has a very low self esteem. Hope it gets better for u I know its stressful n hurts.

[GordonBaby]

I say avoid the appearance of evil....sometimes even though it may be innocent it may appear to be something else.

[maybay]

I have always been told that if some one is accusing you of cheating usually they are feeling guilty and pusing it on to you.

[Sarah765]

Thank you k_bmomma, you said it perfectly.  For us it has nothing to do with trust but respect for eachother.  I trust my husband completely, it really has nothing to do with that.  Maybe its just because we have more traditional values.

[Ashdub07]

Word. My husband and I only text family and mutual friends of the opposite sex. And they're all married. A new rule set in place cuz my husband was a cheating dirty wh0re

[K_Bmomma]

I think it depends on your relationship with your partner. If its something that is constantly causing issues between you two and they friends aren't someone you've grown up with or something along those lines why even cause the stress/ conflict. Its not even about trust just respect almost. But like I said it depends on your relationship with your partner and what the relationship with the friend is

[Aurorasmommy2be]

Are you two serious?? ^ lol omg. Talk about trust issues

[shinieshoes]

I agree with Sarah. It may not be a rational jealousy but as long as it upsets him it's still going to do damage to your relationship. My husband and I went through this for years. We finally just both stopped and we're happier than we have been in years. It may just be innocent

[Sarah765]

I actually agree with your boyfriend, theres no reason to be texting guys.  Just like I wouldnt want my husband texting girls.  Even when things are innocent it is a dangerous situation to put yourself in (relationship wise).  Most emotional and physical affairs start out completely innocently.  My marriage is too important to allow any sorts of temptations to come into it.  There is no reason I need to have close male friendships, and no reason my husband should need close female friendships.  

[Tay9662]

Lol I get jealous but only if he gives me a reason there's a difference between texting a guy and flirting.. Same with him but he try's to set this double standard and I mean my ex will text me and I don't respond but he still gets pissed and it annoys me

[rudee22]

I'm the crazy one in this situation :(

[mommabear27]

My ex was like that.   my ex of like 7 years ago has the same friend group as I do and if there's a party or that he is there, as I am and my most recent ex (partner of 5 years and my BD) came too and always had such a problem if my old ex said hi, asked how my mum was etc.   But it was ok for him to have 2 of his exes on facebook and have a drink with his if he met them in the pub (small town), he was such a hypocrite x

[kimjarrah]

Yeah, my ex was real bad, i couldnt even go to school without who you talking to! I bet you talk to other guys bleh bleh, and that is part of the reason im single haha

[Cupcake2191]

Yup.. From time 2 time.

[Dlacey]

Same boat also

[Tay9662]

Lol I just don't get it like right now it's like he's pouting.. He left the bed and went to sleep on the couch because "I shouldn't give my number to guys"...