help what you think ?

[Bellybri]

Im a 19 year old ftm and my mom act like she doesn't want me to leave but i think it would be better if i stayed with my child'father so they can have a bond because she already trying to control everything like its her baby

[Bellybri]

Me an him has did everything on our own i threw my own baby shower baby got everything needed i don't depend on her or nobody else i just feel pressured into staying when i really don't want to an my step dad i think he wants me to go anyway an they procrastinate on everything like the baby bed is not put together ill be 38 wks sunday an they act like they dont care it really pisses me off an i know its gone hurt her if i leave

[Babyvzqzmommy]

I'm also 19 years old, I found out I was pregnant and thankfully my boyfriend and I had money saved up and got our own apartment.  We live not to far from his mom's and not to far from my mom's. Both our mothers are excited but my mother wants to be more involved, I guess it's naturally. I started planning stuff for the baby shower she said no ill take care of it, when she found out my doctor and what hospital I'm delivering in she was mad and said I should change it. Honestly it is your child and at the end it's your decision. Our mothers already have that instinct so they want to use it on everyone

[victoriamichelle1010]

Im having the same problem. I told her im not splitting up my family. My daughter deserves to have her dad around at all times. If me and him end up spliting ul later on then okay but im not gknna be the one to cause my family to be apart.

[CutieMommy2be]

Move out on your own. It will show her your independent. Your an adult.. you don't need someone ordering you around.  The last thing you need is stress after the new baby arrives.

[3rdNdone]

I think it's ultimately up to you. I had my own place by the time I had my first child but I moved in with my mother for the first weeks after my son was born. We had the worst relationship before I became pregnant, but my pregnancy bonded us. My now husband didn't mind because he worked during the day and had class at night. For me having my own before my now husband and I moved in together worked for me.

[krrobbins]

I am 19 and moved out. I live with the father. It's best if you think he will be a help and it won't put a a train on both of you because it could cause a lot of fighting. But just make sure if you do move out that you ensure your mother that she will still be a big part of everything you do.

[Bellybri]

I know i really want to because i don't think we will get along like i was saying i didn't want my baby to be kissed on because germs then bumps she got upset and when i said the.first six weeks i just want him to be close to me and his dad

[Bellybri]

I know she is going to mad but i think it would be better for me so i can have my own family an i don't ask her for anything the only person that really help is my bf he does everything for me

[MomnaBree97]

Before it gets worse *

[MomnaBree97]

My mom is the same! She was telling me how I'm gonna raise her and when I'm gonna baptize her (which I was not!) And when my daughter came along it got worse! And it took me six months to move out. I say get out now before it g e'er T's worse and harder for you to leave.

[tauruan92]

You will have to move out and show you can stand on your on everyone loves and wants to volunteer when babies first arrive but after awhile it stops

[Bellybri]

Ikr its so hard decisions decisions i just dont want it to be a problem wth the two because im going back to school at night when he gets off n she like no imma watch him he don't need to im like thats his father

[jaycollins]

If you don't move out now im guessing it will only get harder to in the long run, and I know mums get some times over excited but the way my mum puts it is its her baby having a baby and im 21 lol