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Scared and alone:(
Hey ladies, I'm in name is Amani. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and it's my first child my first everything pretty much. I been with my boyfriend for 5 years and at first he was speechless once I told him I was pregnant, then he was glad that he was going to be a dad and now he's saying he doesn't want nothing to do with me. He's been acting weird for a while now treating me bad, calling me names, saying hurtful stuff, not being there for me or his child and just being an *******. I feel so alone because I have no one there with me not even my family. I'm in a position that I don't know what to do that I'm going through depression. I need help or any advice at this point. Please and thank you.
My family will never expected my relationship my with my baby's dad and I know they will never expect that I'm having a child with him. There arabic Muslims from Israel and my boyfriend is Spanish so it's way more harder for me because I have no one by my side I'm alone and scared. My boyfriend isn't there for me he changed out of know where I thought having a baby together makes him a stronger Christian man but I was wrong. I will love my child no matter what it's just the spot I'm in is harder then I thought.
I'm in the same boat as you been my the father of my child going on 5 year high school sweetheart I'm 18 weeks pregnant and we find out what we are this up coming Friday he doesn't act excited he acts like he could careless i feel like i got to force him to have any type of interaction with dr appointment and such he calls me name tells me im messing around on i cry alot i feel like only reason we are still together is because he don't want to be a dead beat and thinks ill keep him from his child if we aren't together . I know its hard but do what's best for you and your child even if it feels like you will never get past it . Its better he decide now before your baby is born than after so that your baby doesn't get attached . Unless your little one is like mine and is attached to daddy from the womb then better off without him trust i know ive been try to find will power to let go of my baby dad but just can't seem to find it
1st off stay strong easier said than done I know I did a lot of crying in the bathroom trust me I know what ur going through but just imagine ur caring something so precious and he or she is going to love you unconditionally finally a human being that will appreciate and need you someone to love you can't control your child father actions or feelings but you can control what goes on around you give ur family time they'll come around but it's not about them it's about you and ur unborn child who feels everything pray call out to God and talk to him and I'm going to pray for you as well Infact right now
The situation I'm in is more difficult than what you think it is. But i will love for someone to talk and listen and maybe give me advice.
If you need some one too talk too I will any time :) I'm pregnant with my second one I'm 4 weeks and I'm extremely high risk so I'm nervous too ...all I can do is pray though :) so if ya need me I'll talk:) or listen
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