am i hormonal?

[pickles363]

Thanks for taking the time to read this. My partner works 40hrs pw. Im currently 21w 3d with our 3rd child and a stay at home mum. Iv asked my partner to be more supportive as im finding it very difficult looking after our 2 children all day whilst.constantly feeling tired and having no energy, he doesnt help with housework/cooking/cleaning/or washing, his side of the room is constantly messy, he doesnt come to bed with me he plays on his video games, the last time we had any kind of intamacy he apologised that it was boring and to top it off i caught himm pleasuring himself, iv had enough  i feel like crap  please help

[pickles363]

Many thanks for your reply, have had a chat with him and asked him to help around the house even if its just picking up after himself. Hopefully he will be more supportive as thats what i need right now. Thanks again

[brit333]

Seems a little odd... My husband didnt really want to have sex while I was pregnant either because he was afraid it would hurt the baby... I only have 1 baby and my husband helps out a lot around the house and works about 55 hours a week.

You probably just need to sit down with him and ask him what is going on. I would imagine you are exhausted and have no energy. Hopefully you can get some resolution from him. Being a mom is a full time job. You never get a break and I think at times our husbands done understand that. They feel like we get to stay home all day long and dont have much to do because we are not going into the office to work.

Good luck to you. I dont think you are hormonal though.